j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #71  March 29,2010, 9:53pm
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I used to be a city girl but that has changed dramatically over the years and I'm now a country girl. There's nothing better than sitting outside in the middle of nowhere in the middle of the night and watch a starry sky. My dream is, one day, to live on the edge of civilization in a small house with a stable and a couple of horses. But I better be quick as I'm a woman of a certain age now.
Texas, Montana, or Wyoming. Winters are hard, especially the latter two.....but the land can't be beat for open skies at night.

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and... has that happened yet in your lifetime? did you just wake up and another dream was shattered

I crack me up
It does happen! I think it was Blue Monkey that told the story once.....I might send her a PM and see if I can't get her back in this thread.

Her story would crack us all up!

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howardtheduck wrote :
and... has that happened yet in your lifetime? did you just wake up and another dream was shattered

I crack me up
Yes it has.....and it caught me totally off guard.
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Avalon1k wrote :
I figure if she grabs me and gives me a kiss that would be pretty safe....LOL...
You're limiting your options pretty significantly with this particular criteria. Although I believe there are some places that this might occur down on the Lower East Side in Manhattan...
Of course, I don't know if it would be "safe" - as your "she" could quite possibly be a "he" downtown.
 
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speak2jelamat wrote :
You're limiting your options pretty significantly with this particular criteria. Although I believe there are some places that this might occur down on the Lower East Side in Manhattan...
Of course, I don't know if it would be "safe" - as your "she" could quite possibly be a "he" downtown.
I hate it when that happens!

Don't ask...
 
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I can only speak for myself but I think based on informal polls of my friends, I am pretty typical. We are waiting for you to say something. We are not going to come right out & say we want to go out with you or offer our #. We assume you are well aware of all the signals: tossing of hair, batting of eyes, touching of arm, smiling, leaning in, etc, etc etc. We assume that since you are aware we are flirting, if you don't ask for the #, then apparently you are not interested. So if you are interested, just ask. We are waiting. There are 6 single men for every 1 single woman I am told so if you are a single guy who is reasonably normal & think you are not dating enough or can't find the right gal, then probably you are not asking often enough. Ask everyone. It's your civic duty. Just ask. We will appreciate it. We are waiting. While we are waiting we are getting our hair & nails done, waxing our brows, working out, buying new dresses, reading self help books....but we are waiting. Waiting for you to ask. SO ASK!!!
 
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Okay, this is for Howard, though I don't know if it will confirm that women spontaneously kiss to express interest. That isn't what happened.

I was 17. There used to be a club nearby that got decent live music from time to time. My college roommate, my sister and I decided to go watch a band - a moderately well known English blues guitarist and singer. The venue was small and we were sitting about three feet from the stage. Being underage, my companions kept buying me drinks. Beer from Katie and CC and 7 from my sister. I think they were both too looped to notice the other was buying as well. I spent the night flirting outrageously with the saxaphone player. We were invited to an afterparty at the hotel, which we declined.

On the way out, the singer was leaning up against a post talking to a tall, leggy blonde. On a whim, and probably fueled by too much alcohol, as I passed I stepped between them and kissed him. Not a peck on the cheek or lips, but one of those deep, soulful, I-could-rock-your-world kisses. I walked away afterward without saying a word, and before he managed to get his chin up off his chest. I heard "Hey, love..." behind me and gave a little wave over my shoulder before stepping out into the night.

I couldn't tell you why I did it. Didn't have a crush on him. Wasn't ever a groupie. God knows he rivaled Lyle Lovett for unfortunate looks. But, the man knew how to land on his feet and make the best of the situation. I have no idea who the blonde was or what she thought. I didn't bother to ask.

Posted per J8's request...

For the record, I have been the first to kiss more than once. It always elicits a nice reaction. I'm a bit more slow to do so these days than I used to be, but I doubt I've lost the instinct. I've lived most of my life not giving much concern to what other people think. If something I do prompts disrespect, I am more likely to discount the person than discard my actions which are always (even in the midst of youthful indescretion) heartfelt at the moment and usually exactly what I meant to do.
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
On the way out, the singer was leaning up against a post talking to a tall, leggy blonde. On a whim, and probably fueled by too much alcohol, as I passed I stepped between them and kissed him. Not a peck on the cheek or lips, but one of those deep, soulful, I-could-rock-your-world kisses. I walked away afterward without saying a word, and before he managed to get his chin up off his chest. I heard "Hey, love..." behind me and gave a little wave over my shoulder before stepping out into the night.

Posted per J8's request...
I love that story even better the second time around. I wish I could have been there to see it. Thank You for telling it again.

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Don't ask...
Ok, I won't. But I'm just itching to.

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StuckOnYou wrote :
I hate it when that happens!

Don't ask...
Tell!

(That wasn't asking....particularly. )
 
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speak2jelamat wrote :
You're limiting your options pretty significantly with this particular criteria. Although I believe there are some places that this might occur down on the Lower East Side in Manhattan...
Of course, I don't know if it would be "safe" - as your "she" could quite possibly be a "he" downtown.

Really I was joking....I think too many people took me seriously. But I have been kissed when I did not expect it. More than once....
 
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