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Jato87 is offline Jato87 Post #71  March 28,2010, 3:56pm
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This is not directed to the OP, but to the other posters. I do not understand his first (wonderful male) therapist and also his friend in Oxford who both said he should not tell his therapist about his attraction so that this issue can be properly addressed.

Are they both suggesting that he withhold his innermost feelings, and not share with them, everything he is feeling??? Is this a professional position--to withhold his feelings from his therapist?

Seems to me to be counterproductive to the very process of therapy. I think he needs to demand an explanation from those two.
 
 
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there's a sex in the city episode where a character is in love with his therapist, so he has a second therapist to deal with the issue from the first, and a third that just tells him what he wants to hear.
 
 
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