Avalon1k is offline Avalon1k Post #31  March 23,2010, 11:01pm
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OK jayjay I will take the troll bait. ;p~

I don't even mind doing all the housework and the cleaning. What I do mind though is the idea that I will work a 40 hour week job, do all the cooking and cleaning, fetch all the cold drinks for him that he wants, take care of the kids, too so he can watch TV uninterrupted, massage his feet, and go to bed early with him bc he's in the mood for sex.

When do I get to have a life? Why would I want to get married or even have a live-in with that kind of imbalance?

Don't tell me there aren't relationships like that either bc I'm surrounded by them. lol

And in fact, last two husbands were just like that. They were all about fairness and egalitarianism during dating. But after I signed in blood on the dotted line ...

We had a administrative assistant at a college I worked at a few years ago that told me she had enough of working all day, going home doing housework, taking care of the kids, and crawling into bed exhausted at 10pm just to do the same the next day. Meanwhile her husband came home from work, sat on the couch and watched TV. She was very resentful.
 
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Yay! spring has sprung.

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Avalon1k wrote :
We had a administrative assistant at a college I worked at a few years ago that told me she had enough of working all day, going home doing housework, taking care of the kids, and crawling into bed exhausted at 10pm just to do the same the next day. Meanwhile her husband came home from work, sat on the couch and watched TV. She was very resentful.
Yup. Gets old real fast.
 
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