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curlygirlpdx is offline curlygirlpdx Post #1  March 18,2010, 9:39pm
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I have a sex question. . .I'm wondering for a guys' opinion or anyone for that matter. Is it a turn off or turn on when a women is vocally expressive in bed? I'm not necessarily referring to 'talk' or any kind but more so the other noises that sometimes happen. Thoughts?
 
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curlygirlpdx wrote :
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I have a sex question. . .I'm wondering for a guys' opinion or anyone for that matter. Is it a turn off or turn on when a women is vocally expressive in bed? I'm not necessarily referring to 'talk' or any kind but more so the other noises that sometimes happen. Thoughts?
Depeends on what exactly those noises are or sound like.
 
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Generally, loud is good!

Unless your "noises" sound like a cat being skinned or something.
 
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It depends on where and how loud you are...

I had a college girlfriend that was extremely loud. I was a bit embarrassed at first, but even when my roommates affectionately referred to her as "The Screamer", she would just smile demurely, so I got over it.

It was a bit tricky doing it anywhere outside around campus, something we both enjoyed, because she was not able to tone it down and the noises couldn't really be mistaken for anything else. And her roommates insisted that we meet at my house.

Just reminiscin'...
 
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We had a discussion going on this in the Let's Talk About Sex group. You might want to check it out.

I am loud and tell my potential bedroom partner before hand. Most like it.
 
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curlygirlpdx wrote :
Hello Everyone--

I have a sex question. . .I'm wondering for a guys' opinion or anyone for that matter. Is it a turn off or turn on when a women is vocally expressive in bed? I'm not necessarily referring to 'talk' or any kind but more so the other noises that sometimes happen. Thoughts?
My thoughts are actions speak louder than words.
 
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AndieIsMe wrote :
We had a discussion going on this in the Let's Talk About Sex group. You might want to check it out.

I am loud and tell my potential bedroom partner before hand. Most like it.
I found the thread and bumped it (harhar) to the top
 
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I've always been pretty vocal, and my guy is really loud. It makes for good fun!
 
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First: yes, you should really go see the thread in LTAS. It is good stuff, and has more feedback for ya on this very thing.

Second: I don't see a problem with it, and I can't think of anyone I'd like to be with that does... Female vocals during this particular action provide good feedback as to what she likes. This is communication, and we likes good communication... *grin*
 
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I'm usually pretty vocal in bed, but on the odd time I had to be quiet, it totally turned my ex-boyfriend on. He loved doing things to me and knowing that I had to fight to keep myself...uh...silent, lol.
 
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