LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #1  March 11,2010, 8:18pm

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This thread is being started just so people can share what sex is to them.

Sex is two people - no matter how you dice it - it always comes down to two people.

So we can't really answer a poster's question for them but we can answer the question posed to us - What is sex to me?!

So what is Sex to you. When you have sex next, how do you want it to play out? How would it happen for you? What is your idea scenario of having sex the next time for the first time...again? Do you need to add more than first night sex to get to incredibly mind blowing sex?

(This is for people to just answer how they want it to be for them without being challenged on it.)

And if you are having sex now and enjoying it, explain the journey, if you want. Or if you are not currently having sex but have something to share about a past experience, explain it here, if you want.

The point is to talk about sex as it means to you. Not anyone else. Just what it means to you.
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #2  March 11,2010, 8:41pm

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I'm not really having sex right now, cause having sex and typing at the same time would be too difficult!!
 
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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #3  March 11,2010, 8:50pm

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How would you want it to play out when you have sex the next time, PY? Ideally, what do you want?
 
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ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #4  March 11,2010, 8:51pm
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Are you offering?
 
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ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #5  March 11,2010, 8:53pm
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If I have $7000 available.....
 
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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #6  March 11,2010, 8:57pm

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ami1uwant wrote :
Are you offering?
You want me to? If I was, how would you want it played out?
Last edited by LizziePooh; March 11,2010 at 8:58pm. Reason: And I waive my fee, but just this one time.:p
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
What is sex to me?!

how do you want it to play out? How would it happen for you? What is your idea scenario of having sex the next time for the first time...again? Do you need to add more than first night sex to get to incredibly mind blowing sex?
I'll bite. Somebody has to go first, right Lizzie? You owe me Big Time for this, girlFriend!

Sex to me.....is an Opportunity.

It's possible (at its best) for me to feel that I'm One.....with the Man I Love. Connected.....Soul to Soul.....Forever.....Timeless. Soul Mates, as sure as I'm living and breathing. It's a Awesome Wonder, truly, how we fit together so perfectly.....as if we were made for each other. Destiny, plain and simple.

I've only had two men since I was 22. Both husbands. I want the next one.....to be the last one. I'm going to need to love him first. That I know.

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Last edited by j0hn8andy; March 11,2010 at 9:28pm. Reason: .....now, Lizzie.....who's going to go second?.....PY & 1?.....third, fourth?.....don't be shy.....
 
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Wootz is offline Wootz Post #8  March 11,2010, 10:13pm
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Sex is lots of things. And it bloody well should be, as much as I get out of it! *grin*

To me, sex is everything from quickies before work to slow-building, sensual sex, to wild screaming monkey sex that can be heard half a mile off... All the touching and stimulation, the kissing and ululations, the grinding and gasping for breath is part of it. Sometimes that simmering, teasing, long lasting foreplay is a nice way to start. Sometimes it's too late for that, and I'm into ripping the clothes off as quick as possible.

It is meaningful, I think we can all agree. A man may worship a woman's mind with good conversation and intrigue, he worships her body with sex, because, honestly ladies- how many of you are up to thinking critically when properly stimulated? *grin* Though it is falling out of favor, I believe that "making love" still has some merit to the phrase. Copulation *can* be a way of creating new life, so that's one facet.

It is also love-in-action. Love is giving (and not selfish). It is curious and delightful, full of wonder and joy. It is also comfort and knowledge, experience without being jaded, and a satisfaction shared between two people. One can learn quite a bit about another person by their sex life- folks knew this even before Freud. *grin* I believe that sex is and should be a necessary expression of romantic love between two people, after both are ready for it.

I haven't had sex since my ex-fiancé and I split up years ago, and while I do miss it, I am in no hurry to jump in the sack with just anybody. I want it to be with the *right* one- I have had enough "experiences" to know how sex changes a relationship. I want a solid foundation first before I start to build on it... However that comes about.

As far as how I'd like to have sex next, or past experiences, I'll save that for later. *grin* Now the rest of you get off your butts and post. Don't be shy. Hey, if I can do it, so can you! *grin*
 
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It seems rather sad to follow Wootz's post with this, but . . .

I have no idea, for obvious reasons. Well, obvious to anyone who has followed my posts here. lol Maybe someday I'll get a chance to find out.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
This thread is being started just so people can share what sex is to them.

Sex is two people - no matter how you dice it - it always comes down to two people.
Why can't it be more than two people?
 
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