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justme27 is offline justme27 Post #11  February 25,2010, 6:48pm
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You had to be "approved" for dating? The only person who should be doing that is you and the person you date.
Thanks everyone who replied, I really appreciate your support. No, Mr Flyer, sometimes in life when you go through tough things it's best not to date until you have worked them out. Reason being, is you can make bad choices in who you date and if you are lucky to meet the right person to date the issues will manifest themselves in some form in the relationship. Better to work on yourself and then date.
 
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justme27 wrote :
Thanks everyone who replied, I really appreciate your support. No, Mr Flyer, sometimes in life when you go through tough things it's best not to date until you have worked them out. Reason being, is you can make bad choices in who you date and if you are lucky to meet the right person to date the issues will manifest themselves in some form in the relationship. Better to work on yourself and then date.

I totally agree...we need to work on ourselves before getting in a relationship with others.
 
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Avalon1k wrote :
I totally agree...we need to work on ourselves before getting in a relationship with others.
The logical extension of that is to never date, because you will never be perfect.

That's the kind of bad thinking that prevented me from dating in college, because I didn't have much money (but then, neither did most of the other guys). Then it kept me from dating at other times for equally bad reasons.

Go out in public, look at couples, and ask yourselves how much they worked on themselves before getting into relationships.

Why can't you work on yourself and date at the same time?
 
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