CaramelsYummy is offline CaramelsYummy Post #21  April 10,2010, 11:00am
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I started going to a gym and I'm losing weight. I've also been looking for volunteer work in the community. My goal is to rebuild my own character and, who knows? Maybe this will make me more attractive to women because they can perceive a more confident guy who doesn't give off the perception of being the sweet, needy guy who needs love like oxygen. I'm not anti-love or anti-romance. It's all good. But I think women prefer small doses rather than big ones. Am I wrong?[/quote]

Exactly. Just make sure that whatever self improvement you are attempting you are doing it because you love and value yourself. Chick magnetism will be a happy bonus if you do that. And when you reach that place where you are happy with your looks and the things you've got going for yourself in your life, try not to dwell on the girls who didn't give you a chance. The past is the past. What will matter then is that you've grown in your life and you're ready to meet the person who will respond positively to that self-love and self-respect you have worked to achieve. Blessings.
 
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