One thing I really Want is what all people want: someone that truly wants to be with me and Loves me.


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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #1  February 15,2010, 12:23pm
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Here's a comment to ponder:

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And the one thing I really want is what mostly all people want: someone that truly wants to be with me and loves me.

Who feels this way?

Is this your most important criteria?

Can you put other criteria in a secondary position for the sake of this?

Are you actions, choices, and screening criteria consistent with this choice?
 
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tjlpd is offline tjlpd Post #2  February 15,2010, 12:37pm
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I have seen this a lot in profiles.
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #3  February 15,2010, 12:38pm
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I have seen this a lot in profiles.

Do you agree with it?

Do the people who state it, appear to embody it?
 
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Cause you knew I would tear apart the logic...no one would want this since it is also important that you love the person as well. I believe when someone loves you and want to be with you and you don't love them, we call that stalking.
 
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"I Love You" can often mean: "Tell ME that you love ME".


You need to be able to quickly discern whether this is the case or not when you hear the words uttered to you..
 
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It's better than "I want someone that truly wants to go Dutch and loves that I have a job."
 
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D_Lion wrote :
Who feels this way?

Is this your most important criteria?

Can you put other criteria in a secondary position for the sake of this?

Are you actions, choices, and screening criteria consistent with this choice?
False choice...that'd be one of a few must haves for me. To say that is is a must have does not imply that I would abandon other must-haves to have it.

My actions are consistent with this...if I'm romantically interested in a woman and she makes it quite clear that she does not feel the same way (not merely on the fence, but has placed me in the friend zone), I do not continue pursuing a platonic relationship is hopes and it will become romantic.
 
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I feel this way.

But I don't look for it as a criteria - I hope it is just a by-product.

I have loved someone and knew I could be happy for the rest of my life. I loved a man that I respected a lot and I knew that would never change.

I believe it was enough to know that I knew I loved him without confirmation of the same sentiment being returned. I do not need that to love someone but I definitely know I want it reciprocated. I don't think I could do another round just one-sided again. I know I don't want to.
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #9  February 15,2010, 4:24pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Here's a comment to ponder:

Who feels this way?

Is this your most important criteria?

Can you put other criteria in a secondary position for the sake of this?

Are you actions, choices, and screening criteria consistent with this choice?
I would think that this is one of the more important, if not the most important criteria.

But you would think that dealbreakers would still be dealbreakers even if that criteria would be met...
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #10  February 15,2010, 4:25pm
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It's better than "I want someone that truly wants to go Dutch and loves that I have a job."

Zing.
 
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