richey is online now richey Post #11  February 15,2010, 5:33pm
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Andiels.... hahahhah @ calling me out. Sorry took a while to respond (been rather busy lately hehe).

I dont' think it's that abnormal at all. However, if anything, there is moderation. If you find that your'e CONSTANTLY doing this and is part of your daily routine, then maybe something else is going on here.

There probably is a little bit of "don't want him to like me, so this will conveniently get him out of my way" going on.... maybe even perhaps a little of "this will get my friend in something so she can't be my competition with a guy I really like" in there somewhere...... but I dont' think it's enough of it to say it's unhealthy.

In the end I think yor'e doing it because you really think they would be a good match with a friend of your instead of you.... and tha's fine. Just if you find yourself doing this more and more and more to the point it does become a daily routine or daily activity of yours ~ then you may want to check yourself and ask why.

Btw.. can you set ME up with somebody? pretty please? *wink*

Richey
 
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Dang if I ever date any girls, Richey! But, if I meet someone I think would be a good match for you, you know I will tell you.
 
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