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NiceGuysFinishFirst is offline NiceGuysFinishFirst Post #1  January 23,2010, 11:04pm

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For me, it is her eyes followed by her smile. I think you can tell a lot about someone from their eyes and their smile. When I get matched up with women, the first thing I look at is their eyes. I believe eye contact has a lot to do with chemistry and body language.
 
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Height then their smile. I like a nice warm smile. If I like that then the eyes come into play.

Something non visual I always notice is their voice. I like to listen to a mans voice and how they verbalize. Doesn't have to be baritone deep, just soothing.
 
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Smile first, then eye contact. Someone who doesn't smile easily is usually a lot of work, i'm always making jokes and if i can't get a smile then it doesn't bode well, and someone who avoids eye contact is going to be a closed book chained to the library shelf.
 
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first thing i notice about a man: how he carries himself, the attitude in his posture.
 
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NiceGuysFinishFirst wrote :
For me, it is her eyes followed by her smile. I think you can tell a lot about someone from their eyes and their smile. When I get matched up with women, the first thing I look at is their eyes. I believe eye contact has a lot to do with chemistry and body language.
Yep, I'd have to agree, though if we're talking about a face-to-face meeting, I'm simultaneously taking notice of his demeanor, which could either cancel out enhance the first two.
 
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I notice how they walk and hold the body mostly. Boys my age like to not walk straight and think its cool to look very sloppy but girls notice that right away.

I like a boy to be neat and look like he is smart and stuff like that. I don't really look at his face because my culture doesn't really look at faces first like it is bad manners. Just a different thing on what is correct.

And it is bad manners to stare into a girls eyes too-so thats sort of funny!!!!

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NiceGuysFinishFirst wrote :
For me, it is her eyes followed by her smile. I think you can tell a lot about someone from their eyes and their smile. When I get matched up with women, the first thing I look at is their eyes. I believe eye contact has a lot to do with chemistry and body language.
You mean you dont notice her breasts?
 
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lucky173 is offline lucky173 Post #8  January 23,2010, 11:27pm
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Eyes and smile. Eye contact, with anyone really, is important for me when talking to them... so if someone constantly is shifty or looking away I lose attention/interest quickly.

It's also why when seeing profile pics if there isn't at least ONE where the guy has a smile, (not mug-shot, straight faced in all of them) and isn't wearing sunglasses, it's hard for me to tell if I actually like the way his photo looks or not.

How can you tell what someone really looks like when they're eyeballs are covered up w/ shades??
 
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For sure the eyes. Eyes are the window to the soul. If there is no eye contact, that person isn't seeing you for who you are.

Then the smile. People who are happy smile !!

Then the hands, nice strong working hands ...........
 
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lucky173 wrote :
It's also why when seeing profile pics if there isn't at least ONE where the guy has a smile, (not mug-shot, straight faced in all of them) and isn't wearing sunglasses, it's hard for me to tell if I actually like the way his photo looks or not.

How can you tell what someone really looks like when they're eyeballs are covered up w/ shades??
Yep! I actually noted on my profiles on the last couple of dating sites I tried that I would not respond to those who didn't have at least one recent, close-up, smiling photo that they weren't wearing sunglasses in.
 
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