Physically, what's the first thing u notice on a man/woman?


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newbie40something is offline newbie40something Post #21  January 24,2010, 10:05am
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The eyes!!! I really connected with the eyes last night!
 
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First think I notice is height I guess.. I'm walking up to someone how far up or down do I need to look at them to connect? Then, do they smile at me? Frownyfaces just don't do it. You see me? You smile. Even if it's because you're laughing at me. So, then it's good smile, then body. Then, I look at the eyes. So yeah, it's the overall package. But the voice, oh the voice can do it for me.
 
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Yep! I actually noted on my profiles on the last couple of dating sites I tried that I would not respond to those who didn't have at least one recent, close-up, smiling photo that they weren't wearing sunglasses in.
D'Oh.... so I guess a date is out of the question.

I also catch eyes but do scope the body in general for as much as to see how the person carries them self.
 
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Eyes first, then facial expression.

Then I tune into body language. If it's positive, I scope out the rest of him. If it's iffy or negative, I don't bother.
 
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Honestly, I notice a woman's curves first. Does she have a womanly shape? If yes, then up close her eyes and smile will keep my attention. Not attracted to frail or skinny women at all; doesn't matter how "beautiful" they are.
 
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I notice the whole package (NO not that package..geez guys) How he holds his body, if he slouches or stands up straight.. I like confident men and that can come across quickly in posture. And, I like a bit of attitude..because I have a bit of attitude and I like men who can challenge me attitude wise.

I also really like strongly ethnic looking men. Being born in California, I quickly tired of the blond surfer. My first lover was Italian and he set the standard pretty high. Since then, dark eyes and dark hair yum yum.

I like long hair on men and I like facial hair..I admit, I'm stuck in my youth in that respect. I never appreciated the metrosexual look at all. In my community theres a good cross section of rugged lumbermen and professional men so I have a lot to pick from.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #27  January 24,2010, 3:41pm

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Actually Roxy, that's a timely reminder, it's hair with me too if I'm honest.

My Mum was a mobile hairdresser when I was little in the early 70s and I spent hours around people with big hair having it made bigger. So I figure it stems from that, but I am drawn like a moth to a flame for a full head of healthy looking, slightly wavy, hair.

If you can do that in gray you have a really unfair advantage with me.


then it's the face/smile/a$$/speech thing.
 
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First thing I notice is a woman's weight as in if she's significantly overweight. (the significantly overweight thing is so obvious that I'd say most people who say something else must mean once they've had a chance to focus on a woman's face) After that would be to see if they're smiling or look angry/sad.
 
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If they have clothes on....and then the eyes and smile.
 
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I think the first thing I look at is the smile (or lack of one). Then the second thing is usually... naw, I'll leave a little mystery.
 
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