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yeahitsme is offline yeahitsme Post #11  March 27,2010, 2:09pm
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They don't want a man in their 50's, because lifestyle differences are pretty vast over 30 years. Also, there is a large degree of weirdness dating somebody older than your dad. Why are you pursuing 20 year olds anyway?

People that say you look too young probably mean something else. Either 1) "Wow you look great for your age!" or 2) "I don't find you attractive" or 3) "I have doubts that you told the truth on your profile page, how old are you really?"
 
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yeahitsme wrote :
They don't want a man in their 50's, because lifestyle differences are pretty vast over 30 years. Also, there is a large degree of weirdness dating somebody older than your dad. Why are you pursuing 20 year olds anyway?

People that say you look too young probably mean something else. Either 1) "Wow you look great for your age!" or 2) "I don't find you attractive" or 3) "I have doubts that you told the truth on your profile page, how old are you really?"
The OP hasn't posted on the boards in several months and likely won't see your post. However, he is in fact quite young -- in his early 20s (I don't recall his exact age). It would, in fact, be very appropriate for him to pursue a woman of 20.
 
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thisguy86 wrote :
Sometimes I feel girls don't really know what kind of guy they want. Girls in their 20s write in their profile that they don't want older guys in their 50s hitting on them, but when the girls see my pic, they say I look too young, like under 18.
Then they have given you some great information about how to solve the "too young-looking" problem. So one thing you can do is get some different pictures done and put them up on your profile. Your choice of wardrobe can help you look a little older, as can facial expression, the lighting of the photo--these can all change how you look. the photographer can give you some good advice on the how-tos. Do you play any sports, like football or surf or ski, ride a motorcycle, anything like that? Good clear close up pictures of you in these activities can also make you look a bit more mature.
 
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