melcalrrt is offline melcalrrt Post #21  November 25,2009, 2:24am
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melman is offline melman Post #22  November 25,2009, 5:43am
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Is "not emotionally available" a chick-y way of writing "he's not into me"?

You need to move on and drop all this "great pain and anguish" stuff. Especially if this was the random triathlon guy that you wrote about in your first posts, who told you up front that he wasn't interested...
 
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melcalrrt is offline melcalrrt Post #23  November 25,2009, 8:26am
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #24  November 25,2009, 11:39am
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PY_2 wrote :
So my recent funny experience makes me think a bit.

Any of you watched that romantic comedy with Kate Beckinsale in it?(No...not The Underworld although I like her in that black tight leather suit )..it was her and John Cusack experimenting if they were meant to be together, etc. Movie name Serendipity?

So if each one of us supposed to have that 'special someone' who we are meant to be with...eventually fate will meet us up one way or another, right? Anybody disagree? No?

Keep 'em fun 'n light!
Yep, Serendipity is one of my favourite movies. John Cusack's face in the lift scene is priceless!

I don't know. I don't believe in fate, although I have friends who seem to believe.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #25  November 25,2009, 1:48pm

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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There's a saying here in the East End of London

"What's for you, won't go by you"

I find it kinda comforting.
 
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trixie1868 wrote :
There's a saying here in the East End of London

"What's for you, won't go by you"

I find it kinda comforting.
Five stars.
 
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nightling is offline nightling Post #27  June 16,2010, 2:10pm
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PY_2 wrote :
Five stars.
There are no more stars.

A sad fate.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #28  June 16,2010, 2:33pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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As I recall in the begnningof the movie Serendipity the female lead refuses to pursue a potential relationsip with the male lead, with the idea that if they are meant tobe together then somehow it will just magicaly work out by itself. That may work in the movies but seems likely to lead to unhappiness in real life.
 
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annother is offline annother Post #29  June 16,2010, 3:17pm
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Is it serendipity or fate that there are two "meant to be" threads running concurrently?
 
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