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Asians were not allowed to own property either at some point.
- November 6th, 2009, 10:55 am
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There's a difference between doing hard thinking about your relationship, and spinning your wheels speculating "what does he mean by that?" endlessly when you can't know what it means without asking him.

Not possible to think "too much", if thinking is needed and is productive.
- November 6th, 2009, 11:05 am
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Trying to figure stuff out/analyze/think can be hard work. Trust me, I know!
- November 6th, 2009, 11:22 am
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hazmat wrote :
Yep...yep...yep...Women over think things all the time. It doesn't matter if it's a romantic relationship or a friendship type relationship. And it almost always (at least in my experience) leads them to lean towards the utter disaster scenario.

If something is unclear, a direct question works best for me. Relationships are about communication...right ? If my friend or SO couldn't comfortably come to me with a question about...whatever...it wouldn't be much of a relationship.
I am totally guilty of over thinking things/ analyzing things to death, and I sooooooo wish I wasn't that way.

Don't have a problem with the direct question thing, though; I have no problem asking or answering them. I much prefer that and direct honesty to silly wondering. Problem is, most people (whether it be friends or an SO) can't handle my direct nature. This is why I am guilty of what I said in the first paragraph!

- November 8th, 2009, 12:21 am
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Funny. The researcher was male.

I don't know of any time in recent history where men couldn't own property and could be beaten to death by their women.
I didn't say the "researcher" was female. There are plenty of misguided male, man- hating feminists around. Hence the weak "nice" guys you ladies complain about. Go on then give us a link to this so called "science".

The average male couldn't own property until my parents generation, and I don't know of any recent period in history when it was usual for men to beat their women to death. I'm calling you on your original comment.
- November 8th, 2009, 07:30 am
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Johnnyguitarman wrote :
I didn't say the "researcher" was female. There are plenty of misguided male, man- hating feminists around. Hence the weak "nice" guys you ladies complain about. Go on then give us a link to this so called "science".

The average male couldn't own property until my parents generation, and I don't know of any recent period in history when it was usual for men to beat their women to death. I'm calling you on your original comment.
you need to google some stuff, because you are incorrect.
- November 9th, 2009, 08:16 am
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