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pussinboots is offline pussinboots Post #1  October 22,2009, 8:56am
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Women, do you strongly prefer a man to be more or the same in sexual experience as you? Is it a turn-off if he has less or on the other hand in this day and age he would have not as much chance of carrying an STD?
 
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I never understand this question. It seems to me that you are asking whether I would prefer a man who has had many partners versus few, which does not necessarily equate to experience.

Does a man who was in a relationship for 10 years count as having a lot of experience, even thought it was with one partner compared to someone who has casually dated many people in that time?
 
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MelinCali wrote :
I never understand this question. It seems to me that you are asking whether I would prefer a man who has had many partners versus few, which does not necessarily equate to experience.

Does a man who was in a relationship for 10 years count as having a lot of experience, even thought it was with one partner compared to someone who has casually dated many people in that time?
[You've heard this question before??]

Good point! Then let's say either/or.
 
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I agree with you Mel that there are too many variables at play.

The person in the long term relationship could have been very experimental or not at all.

Having multiple partners could make you better at adapting to new people which could be a plus.

I think that enthusiasm & an exploratative mind could come from either scenario.

I do see an advantage of being with someone that has experienced good sex in their life.

Also someone that knows their body well & is comfortable with it is a plus.
 
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I think men and women prefer a partner who is good. What makes them good is their desire to please their partner and the capacity to be sensitive enough and in tune enough with their partner to know what is and isn't working.
 
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OP it would be a great benefit to all if you can clarify, or maybe be specific about what you want to know.
 
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Laughingdaily wrote :
OP it would be a great benefit to all if you can clarify, or maybe be specific about what you want to know.
OK, to be much more specific, if the man knew he was good in bed [= his previous partners orgasmed with him there] but he had not had a sexual partner for a long time, would a woman consider it a turn-off, because she might think he was a little "rusty" when talking to him before they got intimate?
 
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What worked for one person does not mean it will work for the next. Also, why would you share with them how long it's been since the last time you've had sex. Does not seem like relevant information and yes, it may make her suspect of you along the lines of what's wrong with you, not just sexually but in general.
 
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My experience with "lag time" has not been any problem. It is what you do to please your partner, not how long since your last activity.

Each person has different needs/wants. This is communication and about what they want or need to satisfy them. Pleasing your partner to me is most important.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #10  October 22,2009, 10:24am
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I recently dated a woman who has only had sex with one man in her lifetime (her ex husband). She told me that while that is the case she'd like to marry a man who has quite a bit of sexual experience so 'he'll know what he's doing'. I told her that sounded contradictory and she replied 'I know'. She didn't care.
 
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