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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #31  March 29,2010, 2:01pm

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I find the responses interesting. Most say their heart leads they astray. Yet I have found I am most miserable when I listen to my mind. I find myself unhappy, I want to end it but I stay cause my mind tells me he is a good man, he treats me well, blah blah blah. The whole time my heart is screaming run. Eventually it ends.

This time I followed my heart and my mind can butt out. I have never been so happy in my life.

I could be wrong but it seems silly to leave something as emotional as love to the unemotional mind.
 
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I could be wrong but it seems silly to leave something as emotional as love to the unemotional mind.
I couldn't agree more, my head - that's my experiences, lessons learned, values, beliefs... Following your heart doesn't mean your heart is blind. I believe that by now, for many of us, it is very perceptive, intuitive and wise. You could ask, if it is so wise, what am I doing here? Well, I'm still learning...
 
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