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For me, I love a man who is versatile, that is, one who looks smashing in a perfectly tailored suit and quality shoes and one who looks casual in jeans and a T-shirt. My husband is a machinist who wears jeans and a T-shirt to work every day. However, he has four exquisitely tailored suits and a collection of ties and fine dress shirts. He gets sick of wearing bummy clothes all the time and enjoys the chance to look dashing. He revels in the words, "you sure clean up nice!"
- May 12th, 2008, 10:22 am
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What gets me is that a guy can walk around slouchy most of the time but when he cleans up, he's like a whole different guy. Meanwhile a woman can dress nice everyday, and get a haircut and hardly anyone notices.
- May 12th, 2008, 01:52 pm
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I love to see a man in a suit and tie. Or in jeans and a t shirt.
- May 13th, 2008, 10:01 pm
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Hey ladies,

In my eH profile I took full advantage of the 12 pics that you can post and did some major “overhauling”. I had photos taken of me professionally and then narrowed them down to the final selected pics I have now. All were different and featured natural yet attitude induced poses. I wore 3 different outfits two different ways for variety and a mixture of outside backdrops and inside studio shots.

I pulled off three total different looks using clothing, altering my hairstyle slightly, using accessories, (ex. a necklace), grins/smiles, and the use of my large brown eyes.

-Aeropostal type (Casual)

-Abercrombie type (Preppy-Informal)

-Calvin Klein – suit (Sophisticated & Chic)

The results were amazing, and the feedback I have received thus far has been remarkable, I wanted to try to cover all angles so-to-speak! So I have certainly come to the conclusion that appealing to a match using variety, personal style, character, demeanor, and attitude through expression; captivates their imagination and a lot of return communication for sure!

I did not embellish myself as being a way that I am not naturally or not finding myself feeling comfortable with being whatsoever; however, I just wanted to show that I can be, well – whatever the situation calls for – ideally.

I just wanted to share a little personal experience, and that my overall communication from my matches has more than tripled, then when I was using my standard, I guess to say now “mundane” pics, the investment of both time and money was well worth it!

Have a Great Day!

-Michael
- May 14th, 2008, 12:02 am
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Sarah wrote :
What gets me is that a guy can walk around slouchy most of the time but when he cleans up, he's like a whole different guy. Meanwhile a woman can dress nice everyday, and get a haircut and hardly anyone notices.
I would notice even the slightest detail of you that you changed, not much gets past me, I look at things in life much differently than most out there!

-Michael
- May 14th, 2008, 12:07 am
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CatGirl wrote :
For me, I love a man who is versatile, that is, one who looks smashing in a perfectly tailored suit and quality shoes and one who looks casual in jeans and a T-shirt. My husband is a machinist who wears jeans and a T-shirt to work every day. However, he has four exquisitely tailored suits and a collection of ties and fine dress shirts. He gets sick of wearing bummy clothes all the time and enjoys the chance to look dashing. He revels in the words, "you sure clean up nice!"
My picture here is my main eharmony picture and the caption is "I clean up nice" . The picture was taken after a long night out.

I left out the part where I'm drunk and the girl taking the picture was a total stranger j/k



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I agree with you totally. I LOVE a man in a suit. A friend of mine once had a computer game where you would make your own hero. Mine was wearing a suit with glasses. Everyone as their "thing" that turns them on.
- May 21st, 2008, 03:11 pm
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Ok, first off, Iron Man was INCREDIBLE!

Now, with that being said, back on subject. I TOTALLY love a guy in a suit! So long as it actually fits him properly and looks like he takes care of it (hence no hobo suit with stains and holes in odd places). But at the same time I also love a guy in jeans and a t. I will say I'm not attracted to the stupid t's like all the South Park or Simpsons or any kind of themed t like that. I think simple and clean is sophisticated. Oh, and NOT WRINKLED. If he can't even take the time to throw a shirt in the dryer or hang it up instead of leaving it in a heap on the bedroom floor for weeks...well, that says something doesn't it ladies! But the great thing about a jeans and t guy is that when he finally does have to put on a suit...WOW! But I'd much rather have a little bit of both worlds than nothing but one all the time. Especially simultaneously...like jeans, a t, and a white button down on top of that with some nice shoes. It shows he cares but is still laid back, you know?
- May 21st, 2008, 03:36 pm
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laurenjw wrote :

Ok, first off, Iron Man was INCREDIBLE!

Now, with that being said, back on subject. I TOTALLY love a guy in a suit! So long as it actually fits him properly and looks like he takes care of it (hence no hobo suit with stains and holes in odd places). But at the same time I also love a guy in jeans and a t. I will say I'm not attracted to the stupid t's like all the South Park or Simpsons or any kind of themed t like that. I think simple and clean is sophisticated. Oh, and NOT WRINKLED. If he can't even take the time to throw a shirt in the dryer or hang it up instead of leaving it in a heap on the bedroom floor for weeks...well, that says something doesn't it ladies! But the great thing about a jeans and t guy is that when he finally does have to put on a suit...WOW! But I'd much rather have a little bit of both worlds than nothing but one all the time. Especially simultaneously...like jeans, a t, and a white button down on top of that with some nice shoes. It shows he cares but is still laid back, you know?
I like stupid tee's. They make me giggle. Like " I'm with stupid ---->". hehe
- May 21st, 2008, 04:19 pm
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SweetKatieA wrote :
Suits, uniforms, jeans and t'shirts.... They all have to be fitted right though because not every one looks good on every man. However, give me an Australian man in a tailored suit (or army dress) who smells good and... hold on give me a minute.... yeah.
Yeah, you gotta watch out for those Aussies. The ones I've known (and dated) have been devastatingly seductive - and they all smell good (sigh).
- May 21st, 2008, 06:29 pm
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