Men: What Women Really Think About Your Body

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Chiara is offline Chiara Post #1  July 31,2009, 1:06am
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Amen!  This is a good, brief article.  I wish men would get the above through their thick heads!  Usually, I find the articles on this site terrible, superficial, and lacking in true intelligent thought.  Possibly, because this is a "brief" article, it does not fall into that pit.
 
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Great article. Nothing in particular really matters to me about a guy physically, with the exception that I like a man who does take care of himself. Guys who don't let themselves get too out of shape, who care enough to dress themselves in a flattering manner, and take the time to look good for me in the same way I do for them, is always very refreshing. I don't mind a man who's hairy, has a small bit of extra around the middle or on the sides, or whose feet are absolutely unattractive--but PLEASE--please try to keep it all under control. Trim, as the article says, and just generally care about yourself. Because if you do...maybe I just might too.
 
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More garbage meant for young women in their 20s. Men aren't animals; some of us actually are clean.

Besides they care more about what's in our wallet.
 
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roguewolf1 wrote :
More garbage meant for young women in their 20s. Men aren't animals; some of us actually are clean.

Besides they care more about what's in our wallet.
No, actually it's how tall a guy is .
 
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This is the only part I agree with:
"Men with ponytails and mullets should consider visiting the nearest barber"
The nail salon thing, forget it!, a razor / trimmer and nail clipper will do........
Maybe no gym monkeys, but they don't drool over a beer belly either.

Actually this article talks more about grooming

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More garbage meant for young women in their 20s. Men aren't animals; some of us actually are clean.
Besides they care more about what's in our wallet.
 
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roguewolf1 is offline roguewolf1 Post #6  July 31,2009, 2:59pm

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tweet37 wrote :
No, actually it's how tall a guy is .

duplicate message on my part
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No, actually it's how tall a guy is .

Lol, yeah that's the ticket
 
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Amen to the cellulite comment - as well as the muffin top!! I agree about the basic grooming - soooo important. I actually see more guys getting pedicures lately so that is a great thing!!
 
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Wiseman2 wrote :
This is the only part I agree with:
"Men with ponytails and mullets should consider visiting the nearest barber"
The nail salon thing, forget it!, a razor / trimmer and nail clipper will do........
Maybe no gym monkeys, but they don't drool over a beer belly either.

Actually this article talks more about grooming

True. I shouldn't critcize this essay. After all women do pick what men will have offspring. And who tomorrow's generation will be. But I can't help but think after reading these articles that there is an army of unwashed men out there.
 
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I have to admit I like my men to dress nicely and not have the meaning of casual wear displayed by wearing an oversized t-shirt. I like some care put in and the guy not to be too caught up into brands but for him to try to stay with the fashion trends to a certain degree to create a careful appearance. This means don't just slap it together and walk out the door.

And I am sorry. Men have been so judgmental as to how women have to look. I have people watched and seen many different men over a good period of time check out head to toe a woman (and it is very obvious) that has just gone walking by. So why do we women have to defend our rights to get caught up into the same things. . It is a viscious circle well deserved. I like a V shaped back, a trim stomach and cute butt. I also am not completely shallow though, those are sometimes just the first thing I notice. If the guy has an amazing personality, great laugh, great smile, and winning intelligence I am won over. The cute exterior without the latter mentioned would be an empty shell of a man for me. There it is plain and simple. Talking with many women, they would agree.

Oh, by the way, I am not a feminist, I am actually a tradionalist and conservative fundamental Christian. We like cute butts as much as the next woman. LOL
 
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