pds857 is offline pds857 Post #1  July 20,2009, 12:15pm
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Ok for the last few days I've been having these Way Strange for me Mood swings.
I mean Swing batta batta! Out in left field one minute an then the next I'm perfectly fine! Hittin em right down the center, an then BAM!
Foul Ball.

Does anyone know jus what I'm goin through? If ya do then what are some things you do to calm down?

I mean I dont understand this an its gettin to where I wanna pull my hair out!
I met this wonderful guy an I dont wanna freak him out by acting werid an emo when I'm usually steady, an easy goin.

Things that I'm feelin now that are out of charater for me:
Sensitive to what people say an how they say it.
Think about somethin normal an have an abnormal reaction.
Got upset because no one noticed my new 'hair do' (thats WAY out in left field for me)

Ok, so, am I hormonal? Emo? Crazy?
Or is this somethin that everyone jus goes through sometimes an it'll pass? I've never felt like this before.

Your advice is Greatly Appreciated.
 
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charlie990 is offline charlie990 Post #2  July 20,2009, 12:29pm
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I dont think you are alone or unique in this and its a good first step to ask for advice.. Do you have an older woman that you fully trust and are close enough to ask for advice? .. i think that should be your first step..and remember ..all things pass with time.. they will pass faster with competant,understanding,compasssionate help
 
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Sounds like you need to visit your gynecologist/physician and explain the problems you are having. Could be just a passing hormonal thing, could be something more serious. Best to check than be sorry later - not really anything advice boards can help you with.
 
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I dont really have anyone I can really talk to,
when I tried talkin to my mother, she said I was depressed.
But I'm not depressed, I've been there before an this is
nothin like it. I really am happy, I dont feel down an out,
I dont wanna be alone anymore than usual 'me time' and
I'm not sleepin the day away. So I dont think depression is it really.


I'm wonderin if its jus hormonal? Maybe my body changin?
IDK but its freaky how fast the mood swings come an go.
 
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pds857 wrote :
I'm wonderin if its jus hormonal? Maybe my body changin?
IDK but its freaky how fast the mood swings come an go.
Bipolar? I had an ex who was. But probably just a temporary thing for you. When did it start? Did anything change at the time? What are you thinking/doing when your mood shifts? Any pattern(s)? Are you stressed about something? What about getting a massage or something else relaxing? Or doing something different in your life for a while? Any recent changes in eating/sleeping/etc? It does sound a bit chemical - maybe go visit the dr and get some blood tests done. Or maybe you're just having some different feelings related to your new guy and it's got you off-balance for a bit.
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jacsmit wrote :
Bipolar? I had an ex who was. But probably just a temporary thing for you. When did it start? Did anything change at the time? What are you thinking/doing when your mood shifts? Any pattern(s)? Are you stressed about something? What about getting a massage or something else relaxing? Or doing something different in your life for a while? Any recent changes in eating/sleeping/etc? It does sound a bit chemical - maybe go visit the dr and get some blood tests done. Or maybe you're just having some different feelings related to your new guy and it's got you off-balance for a bit.
I believe I've figured it out, I think my intuition was tellin me somethin and I was mistaking it for mood swings because I didnt have anything concrete to go off of.

My intuition was stressin me.
But I finally listened after I figured it out.
I think I'll be on steady ground now.

Ya'll I jus wanna say listen to your intuition no matter what it makes ya feel like.
Because It might save ya a lot of trouble in the long run.
When ya meet a new fella that seems all gentalmanly dont take it for face value even if he is a school teacher, because there are some twisted people out there. No Joke.

Thanks ya'll for ya advice, I Really appreciate it all.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart.
*hugs to ya'll*
 
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