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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #1  July 17,2009, 7:26am

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Or for men - Don't be more manly than me.

I have a theory (lol! - I have a million of them!) - but I think this is the one measuring stick that we all have in what we find attractive in the opposite sex. Obviously, we have a hundred thousand unique little things to each us that we find attractive, but the one common theme is Don't be more girl than me (if you are a girl) and Don't be more boy than me (if you are a boy).

What say you??
 
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Don't be more man than me if you are a gal.
 
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You boys!!

For the sake of the discussion assume that I mean a girl is more manly than you in personality - not looks; you cry more than her, she is the one getting the spider out of the house, you are the one that wants to talk more often about your relationship and where it is going, etc.
 
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Having been brought up that crying was unmanly I often held my feelings in. After dating and being engaged to one young woman who taught me it was okay to cry, I find myself shedding tears when I watch certain movies or some cases presented Animal cops. If this is unmanly and a girl has a problem with it that is her problem.

I personally would not consider a girl too manly if she worked on her own car, killed bugs or cut down trees with an axe or chainsaw. To my way of thinking this behavior is plain old fashioned survival. As a married person I can safely say that I am a better cook than my wife. I was given survival training at age 12 so that I would not have to spend all my money eating out or hiring a maid service. I can cook, wash clothes, iron, dust and wax and polish a hardwood floor by hand with the best of women and I am proud of it.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
You boys!!

For the sake of the discussion assume that I mean a girl is more manly than you in personality - not looks; you cry more than her, she is the one getting the spider out of the house, you are the one that wants to talk more often about your relationship and where it is going, etc.
Now that would demand on how much I'm paying, how long the session is, and how hard she swings that whip!
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
You boys!!

For the sake of the discussion assume that I mean a girl is more manly than you in personality - not looks; you cry more than her, she is the one getting the spider out of the house, you are the one that wants to talk more often about your relationship and where it is going, etc.
Well as an arachnaphobe, she'd probably be wise to get rid of the spiders herself without letting me know (I tend to go the overkill response route when I see a spider)

Otherwise I prefer girls who are girlie, but are also ones that can take care of themselves if need be
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
Or for men - Don't be more manly than me.

I have a theory (lol! - I have a million of them!) - but I think this is the one measuring stick that we all have in what we find attractive in the opposite sex. Obviously, we have a hundred thousand unique little things to each us that we find attractive, but the one common theme is Don't be more girl than me (if you are a girl) and Don't be more boy than me (if you are a boy).

What say you??
Come on Lizzie. No man could be more girlie than you. You're the ultimate girly-girl!
 
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I don't know if I would refer to it as "girlie," but I would not be attracted to a guy who was more sensitive than I am, or who took longer than I do (30-45 minutes) to get ready for a date, due to primping, etc. I guess that excludes most of the metrosexuals, huh?

As far as spiders go, well yeh I'd be pretty put out if I had to chase down all the spiders for my 'Keeper.' I believe I wouldn't keep him.
 
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zal wrote :
Now that would demand on how much I'm paying, how long the session is, and how hard she swings that whip!
Your therapist uses a whip??! I believe that violates some kind of oath...
 
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