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heartsandbones is offline heartsandbones Post #1  July 13,2009, 12:43pm
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Guys, when you meet a woman and she has piercings and tattoos, what do you think?

I have four tattoos, 13 ear piercings, and my nose is pierced on each side. I haven't ever mentioned these things in online dating profiles because I don't have them in order to attract men or make some kind of statement. They're just part of me. But I am curious what guys think about these things.
 
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I mentioned my tattoos in my profile because i know some people find them unattractive.

however, lots of men like them- more than i originally thought. that's cool.
 
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You should mention these in your profile. Not everyone finds them attractive, some feel it's against God and such. Might be a deal breaker.
 
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If they are visible from your photos ... Then those that don't mind or find them attractive will contact you ... If they are not visible from your photos you may find that some first dates don't go so well.

For me ... Moderation is the key ... When one passes by what I consider moderate, it moves into the unattractive bucket.
 
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Definitely mention all your tattoos and piercings somewhere in your profile. Also if you wear your piercings often then you may want to provide a picture of what you look like with them all in. Certain kinds of guys like these, but a lot won't. You don't want to wait to find out which kind someone is at the face to face meeting.
 
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I agree with the others that it's a good idea to either have some of these visible in a photo or else mention them in your profile. I don't care for either tattoos or piercings. Different strokes.
 
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Yah for me, I dont find them really attractive .
My ex got one and I was okay with that because she said it was to motivate her. She said that was it, after we broke up and were hanging out at the mall she wanted to go get another one, needless to say even though we werent together I wasnt really supportive. I guess because of her I found I am more of a "naturalist" I dont mind piercings because they can grow back if you dont like them. But with tats unless you go through painful removal your options are limited.

I have closed matches because I have seen 2 or more tats visible. You can me shallow if you want but really not a fan.

Also I dont mind women without makeup, the same gf I didnt really even notice when she wasnt wearing makeup she was still beautiful to me
 
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heartsandbones wrote :
Guys, when you meet a woman and she has piercings and tattoos, what do you think?
I have four tattoos, 13 ear piercings, and my nose is pierced on each side. I haven't ever mentioned these things in online dating profiles because I don't have them in order to attract men or make some kind of statement. They're just part of me. But I am curious what guys think about these things.
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For me moderation is key, 14 is a lot of holes!
I think age might have something to do with my thoughts.
I am sure some guys will dig it.
 
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I think tattoos and piercings are hot (even though I don't have any) and it isn't a deal breaker at all for me.
 
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