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hugely mourn for the genius,the most modest person in history--Michael Jackson.I am too sad to say anything now.

what Elizabeth Taylor said is what I want to say: "My heart…my mind…are broken.I loved Michael (Jackson)with all my soul and I can't imagine life without him."
- July 10th, 2009, 03:57 am
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i can't believe eharmony members are so cold that few people want to show their mourning for MJ.maybe i won't join this website anymore, you hurt me.
- July 10th, 2009, 07:56 am
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If you're that easily hurt, we might play too rough for you here.
- July 10th, 2009, 08:15 am
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oscar316 wrote :
i can't believe eharmony members are so cold that few people want to show their mourning for MJ.maybe i won't join this website anymore, you hurt me.


I wasn't going to post here, especially after that belch!

But I can't believe you believe people are cold merely because they don't share your views... How the heck OLD are you, anyway? You've got alot of growing up to do. People are allowed to have differing opinions. On any subject.

Just the other day I posted in a thread about the media coverage of the Memorial. I think I was the only one who said I didn't begrudge it. But I didn't get all bent out of shape just because everybody else disagreed with me.

Pick up your toys and go home. You're not as cool as "MJ", that's for sure!

See, now you've gone and made me lose my temper...
- July 10th, 2009, 08:15 am
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j0hn8andy wrote :
I wasn't going to post here, especially after that belch!

But I can't believe you believe people are cold merely because they don't share your views... How the heck OLD are you, anyway? You've got alot of growing up to do. People are allowed to have differing opinions. On any subject.

Just the other day I posted in a thread about the media coverage of the Memorial. I think I was the only one who said I didn't begrudge it. But I didn't get all bent out of shape just because everybody else disagreed with me.

Pick up your toys and go home. You're not as cool as "MJ", that's for sure!

See, now you've gone and made me lose my temper...
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- July 10th, 2009, 09:18 am
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oscar316 wrote :
i can't believe eharmony members are so cold that few people want to show their mourning for MJ.maybe i won't join this website anymore, you hurt me.
Sad to say but true. Welcome to the real world of EH advice. We are as diverse a group here as in the real world. You'll find cliques, whiners, geniuses, idiots, comedians, etc...we have it all. May I suggest either developing a thick skin or staying in a group where you feel welcome and avoiding the rest.

MJ was a musical genius and it is ashamed that even in death they won't give him that credit. He was much more than that yet for some reason some people feel the need to judge his life as a whole. I say let the poor man rest in peace.
- July 10th, 2009, 09:35 am
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eazie - Sorry you are sad and feeling such loss. Hope, with time, you can smile again.

oscar316 - From what I've seen/read (been lurking here for a while), I'm afraid you are going to have to grow thicker skin to hang out around here--especially if you are so easily offended by others' opinions!
- July 10th, 2009, 09:46 am
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I believe he implied we were the bad people because we choose not to kneel at the Shrine of MJ.

We're not cold simply because we choose to save our sympathy for those more deserving.
- July 10th, 2009, 02:46 pm
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hazmat wrote :
I believe he implied we were the bad people because we choose not to kneel at the Shrine of MJ.

We're not cold simply because we choose to save our sympathy for those more deserving.

Well put hazmat. Since when is mourning for any person mandatory?? oscar316's comment seemed to imply that if we don't agree totally with his position we're cold, he can't cope and he will (as another poster said) "take his toys and go home." Somehow we are the bad guys.

oscar316, did you ever stop to think that some of us on eharmony don't hold MJ in such high esteem as you obviously do? I personally reserve my accolades, affection, respect and mourning for the people who I either know/knew personally or public figures who I can relate with on some level (values, experience, struggles, character, etc.) I definitely did not relate to MJ on ANY level. No judgment but also, no mourning from me.
- July 10th, 2009, 04:00 pm
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