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roguewolf1 wrote :
That is reality; good post. I prefer a petite woman who is on the thin side.

Great post!
Just wondering though -
Why do you think that petite woman is not that excited about dating you? Do you suspect it might have something to do with how you view her, and the rest of the women around you?
- July 31st, 2009, 07:30 am
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I agree with most here in that it is not the body size but the image they have of themselves. I have never been attracted to a skinny man, ever. It's not to say it wouldn't happen if he had all the other attributes that turned me on. We can always state our preferences but in reality, when love hits us between the eyes, we just might surprise ourselves.
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I am sorry, but any one who thinks that a few extra pounds or curvy means...fat, is seriously mistaken. I put curvy/few extra pounds on my profile because that is what I am. I have a large chest and about 10-15 extra pounds. I am not the least bit overweight, but I want to be completly honest. I get SO mad when girls are dilussional about thinking they are so "curvy", when they are obese...it makes honest people like me appear unattractive to men who arn't looking for someone who doesn't care about their health and appearance.
I am not attracted to overweight men, heroin thin men, or muscle heads...I just like a truley average build, like me
- July 31st, 2009, 07:32 pm
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