Women who say they're looking for a "REAL MAN"


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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #141  December 10,2009, 6:11pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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chawks64 wrote :
Now I admit that I kind of like it, but I've had a couple of boyfriends who were on the cell phone with me when I was working, heard what I go through during the course of a day, and told me I needed to immediately quit my job.
For me it wouldn't be the 'masculinity' of the job....but I don't think I could be with a woman who was in physical danger on a regular basis for her job (or for any other reason). Especially if we were to have a child....I wouldn't want that for either her or myself. Good thing I'm a professor.
 
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jayjay wrote :
For me it wouldn't be the 'masculinity' of the job....but I don't think I could be with a woman who was in physical danger on a regular basis for her job (or for any other reason). Especially if we were to have a child....I wouldn't want that for either her or myself. Good thing I'm a professor.
Hey, in the 2 years I've had this job, I've only had one dog bite, a couple of kidnapping attempts, a dozen or so close calls with vicious dogs and a handful of gunshot threats...

What!

(Yeah, the math professor I dated wasn't thrilled with my job, either)
 
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What kind of motive does your wardrobe have?

To find that one perfect article of clothing which is comfortable, warm in the winter, cool in the summer, and costs, at most, $2.00

And makes women swoon.
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #144  December 10,2009, 7:19pm

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VB_Girl wrote :
What kind of motive does your wardrobe have?
lots of colors lol
 
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chawks64 wrote :
Anyway, I'm not trying to say I need a macho man. Yes, it's something I do like, given my druthers, but it's a very small part of what find attractive, kind of like eye color.
For such a small part it comes up quite a bit in your posts! Could've fooled me!
 
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trixie1868 wrote :
Hey! We need this thread.

Obviously I can't be arsed to read it, so I'll probably be saying what's already been said but here goes


A 'real' man is so confident in his own masculinity (which is omnipresent) that he feels no tension in engaging in what might be perceived by some as 'female' activities.


So by way of illustration, but by no means exhaustive description, 'real' man's day may go a bit like this.

Get up, leave clothes on the floor, check out his woman as she gets dressed, get a semi, go outside to de-ice the car, eat low fat breakfast because of slight paunch, pick up cat and kiss it goodbye, tx girlfriend / wife and tell her a) something mundane b) that you love her, stand your ground with that colleague who has to be right but never is, have a beer or two with friends after work, talk football, talk about fine a$$, go home and cook / help cook dinner, watch tv with woman, feel a bit sulky that cat has chosen to sit on her lap but pretend you think it's cute, tell woman about your work place victory with annoying dude, ask for a coffee, steal cat whilst she is in the kitchen, tv surf for sport, switch back over when she returns to sofa, brush teeth properly, go to bed, give wife/gf a thorough and loving pounding, cuddle up, dream of being an astronaut.

Real men are lovely.
ewwwwwwwwwwwww

I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.
 
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No no no you have it wrong! Da furry cat would be in my lap while watching tv. For some reason small furry animals love to purr in my lap.



trixie1868 wrote :
Hey! We need this thread.

Obviously I can't be arsed to read it, so I'll probably be saying what's already been said but here goes


A 'real' man is so confident in his own masculinity (which is omnipresent) that he feels no tension in engaging in what might be perceived by some as 'female' activities.


So by way of illustration, but by no means exhaustive description, 'real' man's day may go a bit like this.

Get up, leave clothes on the floor, check out his woman as she gets dressed, get a semi, go outside to de-ice the car, eat low fat breakfast because of slight paunch, pick up cat and kiss it goodbye, tx girlfriend / wife and tell her a) something mundane b) that you love her, stand your ground with that colleague who has to be right but never is, have a beer or two with friends after work, talk football, talk about fine a$$, go home and cook / help cook dinner, watch tv with woman, feel a bit sulky that cat has chosen to sit on her lap but pretend you think it's cute, tell woman about your work place victory with annoying dude, ask for a coffee, steal cat whilst she is in the kitchen, tv surf for sport, switch back over when she returns to sofa, brush teeth properly, go to bed, give wife/gf a thorough and loving pounding, cuddle up, dream of being an astronaut.

Real men are lovely.
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #148  December 10,2009, 9:39pm
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PY_2 wrote :
For such a small part it comes up quite a bit in your posts! Could've fooled me!

But for some reason I overlook it almost every time I meet a live one!

Maybe like how all of the guys want Charlize, but then they fall in love with a woman that looks nothing like her.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #149  December 11,2009, 12:31pm

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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jayjay wrote :
Or how about....

Real men: don't care if people think they are a 'real man' or not.

Yes.
 
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AnalogGuppy is offline AnalogGuppy Post #150  July 15,2010, 2:33am
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Personally, if I were to see a profile that specifies wanting a "real man" I'd kind of write that person off. : )
 
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