Women who say they're looking for a "REAL MAN"


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bluestarlee is offline bluestarlee Post #111  September 8,2009, 8:43pm
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Thanks for the suggestion, I wish it had worked.

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Maybe what some people may possibly mean by wanting a "real" one is that you have to have your references listed, financial questionare and fico score attatched and none of the references can be a relative of the applicant.

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DeliBebek wrote :
I feel lucky that I learned as a teen that I don't have to follow society's expectations.

This, coming from a man who saw "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2" on opening day, by himself, on the third row. :P
Add me to the sissy club of chick flick watchers, as well.

I suppose the women that want "real men" want someone who is completely unwilling to compromise, listen to your point of view, or listen to you *at all*, someone that will stick to a decision that was made, regardless of whether or not it's the right one, even after being presented with valid evidence of why the decision is wrong, be emotionally unavailable, kick your cat, demand that you fulfill all the stereotypical 50s housewife duties, and who will call you a frigid b*tch when you refuse to sleep with him because he's been out all night drinking, smells like puke and piss, and just wants to hop on for two minutes before rolling over and going to sleep.

That's what I think of when I hear "real man".

I am the complete opposite of all of that and have more integrity in my little toe than a guy like that could ever dream of. I will stand up for what's right, I will hold to my decisions, but only if they're the right ones, well considered, and I will kick the a** of someone that threatens my family.

I'll also cry at sad movies, understand how to support a woman emotionally, and be able to express my own emotions.

A fantasy firefighter might be fun for a few months, but not far down the line you will wish you had a guy like me - a true, open, considerate life partner, supporting you, loving you, nurturing you, and handling my own business. Like a man.
 
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Cool post. I admit I don't watch many chick flicks unless they, like any movie I watch, have good actors, a good plot and some action or is a comedy. Substitute football or martial arts for any of the above

I just saw a chick flick, an older one about two women on the lam who drive cross country and meet a young Brad Pitt who has a minor part (Thelma and Louise.)

Best supporting cast ever. I forgot it's name but it's a legendary chick flick. Ok here's the deal, Masters and Johnson snuck into a few female pajama parties and listened to women's opinion of what a "real" man was.

They got 506 definitions of what a real man was!
So I guess women talking about a real man online are frustrated. And they also have their own idea of what a real guy is. Thank God that's no pressure to us guys who already have lots of pressure!

And to think, if a guy here on this website starts a thread saying "where have all the real women gone" in which he describes sammich making pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen female creatures, he the OP would get attacked and pushed off this board in a Robbin Williams nano second.

Maybe we should have Ultimate Fighting contests here on eha (l love Ultimate, this is just an example.) And the women get to pick their bloodied guy of their delight? Or we can have red neck contests to see which man can verbally abuse women the most? Is that the real men women are looking for?

When a famous old monk was asked what women want per a real man, he said "who knows, you want me to have a cerebral hemorage trying to figure out women? Every female bird picks out a partner different than another female bird."



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Add me to the sissy club of chick flick watchers, as well.

I suppose the women that want "real men" want someone who is completely unwilling to compromise, listen to your point of view, or listen to you *at all*, someone that will stick to a decision that was made, regardless of whether or not it's the right one, even after being presented with valid evidence of why the decision is wrong, be emotionally unavailable, kick your cat, demand that you fulfill all the stereotypical 50s housewife duties, and who will call you a frigid b*tch when you refuse to sleep with him because he's been out all night drinking, smells like puke and piss, and just wants to hop on for two minutes before rolling over and going to sleep.

That's what I think of when I hear "real man".

I am the complete opposite of all of that and have more integrity in my little toe than a guy like that could ever dream of. I will stand up for what's right, I will hold to my decisions, but only if they're the right ones, well considered, and I will kick the a** of someone that threatens my family.

I'll also cry at sad movies, understand how to support a woman emotionally, and be able to express my own emotions.

A fantasy firefighter might be fun for a few months, but not far down the line you will wish you had a guy like me - a true, open, considerate life partner, supporting you, loving you, nurturing you, and handling my own business. Like a man.

DeliBebek wrote :
I feel lucky that I learned as a teen that I don't have to follow society's expectations.

This, coming from a man who saw "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2" on opening day, by himself, on the third row. :P
 
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zen_in_seattle wrote :
Add me to the sissy club of chick flick watchers, as well.

I suppose the women that want "real men" want someone who is completely unwilling to compromise, listen to your point of view, or listen to you *at all*, someone that will stick to a decision that was made, regardless of whether or not it's the right one, even after being presented with valid evidence of why the decision is wrong, be emotionally unavailable, kick your cat, demand that you fulfill all the stereotypical 50s housewife duties, and who will call you a frigid b*tch when you refuse to sleep with him because he's been out all night drinking, smells like puke and piss, and just wants to hop on for two minutes before rolling over and going to sleep.

That's what I think of when I hear "real man".

I am the complete opposite of all of that and have more integrity in my little toe than a guy like that could ever dream of. I will stand up for what's right, I will hold to my decisions, but only if they're the right ones, well considered, and I will kick the a** of someone that threatens my family.

I'll also cry at sad movies, understand how to support a woman emotionally, and be able to express my own emotions.

A fantasy firefighter might be fun for a few months, but not far down the line you will wish you had a guy like me - a true, open, considerate life partner, supporting you, loving you, nurturing you, and handling my own business. Like a man.
 
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Cool post. I admit I don't watch many chick flicks unless they, like any movie I watch, have good actors, a good plot and some action or is a comedy. Substitute football or martial arts for any of the above

I just saw a chick flick, an older one about two women on the lam who drive cross country and meet a young Brad Pitt who has a minor part (Thelma and Louise.)

Best supporting cast ever. I forgot it's name but it's a legendary chick flick. Ok here's the deal, Masters and Johnson snuck into a few female pajama parties and listened to women's opinion of what a "real" man was.

They got 506 definitions of what a real man was!
So I guess women talking about a real man online are frustrated. And they also have their own idea of what a real guy is. Thank God that's no pressure to us guys who already have lots of pressure!

And to think, if a guy here on this website starts a thread saying "where have all the real women gone" in which he describes sammich making pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen female creatures, he the OP would get attacked and pushed off this board in a Robbin Williams nano second.

Maybe we should have Ultimate Fighting contests here on eha (l love Ultimate, this is just an example.) And the women get to pick their bloodied guy of their delight? Or we can have red neck contests to see which man can verbally abuse women the most? Is that the real men women are looking for?

When a famous old monk was asked what women want per a real man, he said "who knows, you want me to have a cerebral hemorage trying to figure out women? Every female bird picks out a partner different than another female bird."






zen_in_seattle wrote :
Add me to the sissy club of chick flick watchers, as well.

I suppose the women that want "real men" want someone who is completely unwilling to compromise, listen to your point of view, or listen to you *at all*, someone that will stick to a decision that was made, regardless of whether or not it's the right one, even after being presented with valid evidence of why the decision is wrong, be emotionally unavailable, kick your cat, demand that you fulfill all the stereotypical 50s housewife duties, and who will call you a frigid b*tch when you refuse to sleep with him because he's been out all night drinking, smells like puke and piss, and just wants to hop on for two minutes before rolling over and going to sleep.

That's what I think of when I hear "real man".

I am the complete opposite of all of that and have more integrity in my little toe than a guy like that could ever dream of. I will stand up for what's right, I will hold to my decisions, but only if they're the right ones, well considered, and I will kick the a** of someone that threatens my family.

I'll also cry at sad movies, understand how to support a woman emotionally, and be able to express my own emotions.

A fantasy firefighter might be fun for a few months, but not far down the line you will wish you had a guy like me - a true, open, considerate life partner, supporting you, loving you, nurturing you, and handling my own business. Like a man.
 
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Cool post. I admit I don't watch many chick flicks unless they, like any movie I watch, have good actors, a good plot and some action or is a comedy. Substitute football or martial arts for any of the above

I just saw a chick flick, an older one about two women on the lam who drive cross country and meet a young Brad Pitt who has a minor part (Thelma and Louise.)

Best supporting cast ever. I forgot it's name but it's a legendary chick flick. Ok here's the deal, Masters and Johnson snuck into a few female pajama parties and listened to women's opinion of what a "real" man was.

They got 506 definitions of what a real man was!
So I guess women talking about a real man online are frustrated. And they also have their own idea of what a real guy is. Thank God that's no pressure to us guys who already have lots of pressure!

And to think, if a guy here on this website starts a thread saying "where have all the real women gone" in which he describes sammich making pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen female creatures, he the OP would get attacked and pushed off this board in a Robbin Williams nano second.

Maybe we should have Ultimate Fighting contests here on eha (l love Ultimate, this is just an example.) And the women get to pick their bloodied guy of their delight? Or we can have red neck contests to see which man can verbally abuse women the most? Is that the real men women are looking for?

When a famous old monk was asked what women want per a real man, he said "who knows, you want me to have a cerebral hemorage trying to figure out women? Every female bird picks out a partner different than another female bird."
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yes, things were so much better back in the day when a man could beat his wife as long as the stick was no bigger than his thumb. [/sarcasm]

to me, a real man is a man who embraces female equality without fear of losing his masculinity.
 
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For me, a real man is one who stands up for what is right and for those who can't defend themselves.

Or maybe that's just my ideal man.
 
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