Facial Hair. WHY GUYS??? WHY?


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AsianFusion is offline AsianFusion Post #21  June 26,2009, 8:21am
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txbubba wrote :
if you don't like men who have facial hair, then close them and seek dates elsewhere.

obviously facial hair IS a part of who THEY are.
I personally don't like facial hair either. I am with the OP . . . while a few men would look okay with facial hair (if they keep it neatly trimmed), I think most of them would look better without.

I also agree with txbubba that "facial hair is generally a part of who they are" and they most likely wouldn't shave it because of you. So if you don't care for the hairy men, just close them and move on. There are plenty of "clean shaven" men out there.
 
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constantseeker wrote :
Half of the time it doesn't even look good. How many guys out there who have it feel that is has to be part of your identity?

My problem with it is that my facial skin is very sensitive, but I really enjoy kissing. From experience, I know that after a great make-out session, my face and neck look like they are "on fire." Lately, most of the matches I get have facial hair and honestly, so many of them would look better without it.

How can I be politically correct about this?
Why is it necessary to be PC about it to begin with?

This is the problem with society.......

Instead of being honest about something you're more concerned with being PC.

If you don't like facial hair, why is it so hard to explain that initially?

If you can't be honest about that, are you really going to be honest about something really important in a relationship?
 
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Send 'em to me! I love facial hair! I went on first date/meet with a guy whose profile pic showed a clean-shaven face, though some other pics showed he used to have a big, bushy moustache. When we met, I was thrilled to see he had grown it back!

Just be up front on your profile about it. Yes, they can cause a rash if you have fairly sensitive skin and/or they have a particularly scratchy beard. Most guys would rather have you say that up front before they contact you as opposed to finding out after they've invested time and effort.

It's like preferring blondes over brunettes - and who wouldn't! Don't try to be PC, just be real and honest.
 
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I have found that a much larger percentage of the divorced male population has facial hair than do attached/married men.

My theory is the divorced ones were married to women who didn't like facial hair and so grew it once they separated... just because they could.

Most of them look younger without the hair, tho. If they knew that they might shave again.

I just had a date last night with someone with a mustache and beard. The good night kiss was all scratchy. I prefer to kiss a guy who is clean shaven.
 
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if you want to quit shaving your legs- go ahead. they are your legs...
Last edited by notyet; June 26,2009 at 8:27pm. Reason: they are your legs!
 
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Too bad notyet doesn't have an opinion on this subject!
 
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I shave about every other day. I look too young and baby faced if I shave every day.
 
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