Why Attracted Mostly to Women of Other Races?


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tyeflash is offline tyeflash Post #1  May 31,2009, 2:36pm
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can anyone tell me why I more attracted to women out of my race. I'm not saying that I dont think white women are not pretty,but I've only dated one white lady in my life. and that was when I was under 8 yrs old. so I guess that wasn't dating.
 
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your probably at the wrong boards for this,try the other boards
 
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The type of person we are attracted to is in many ways a learned behavior, based on our positive and negative interactions with the world.

Are you especially attracted to women of one particular race, or just "not" White women? When did you first notice that you were primarily attracted to women of other races? Can you think of any reasons why you feel more comfortable with women outside of your race?

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We are all attracted to different things at different times.

I went through a phase when I went after nothing but Asian women. Then five years later I was in a phase where I didn't even look at Asian women.
 
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biochemically, we are attracted to people with immune systems that are different from our own. perhaps you are attracted because there are no other barriers to overrule that instinct in your situation.
 
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lil_lamb wrote :
biochemically, we are attracted to people with immune systems that are different from our own. perhaps you are attracted because there are no other barriers to overrule that instinct in your situation.
"Attracted to immune systems that are different than our own?"
I have a pretty strong immune system.
GREAT...
That new lady I'm interested in probably has the aids.
 
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tyeflash wrote :
can anyone tell me why I more attracted to women out of my race. I'm not saying that I dont think white women are not pretty,but I've only dated one white lady in my life. and that was when I was under 8 yrs old. so I guess that wasn't dating.

You like what u like.....You want what u want.....

do what u need to do to make yourself happy.....

in my race their are men and women as light as white, and as dark as black ....I say to you Sir jump in and have fun
 
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for me being Native and living in hilly billy hell Canada (Southern Alberta) - it's a hard thing as I'm mainly attracted to white gals - cause i just seem to have more in common. However, the stereotypes are bad and most will have no problem being a friend but are scared to make that leap to dating for fear of ridicule - it's true. Anyhow, be happy, and date who you want and hopefully things work out.
 
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tyeflash wrote :
can anyone tell me why I more attracted to women out of my race. I'm not saying that I dont think white women are not pretty,but I've only dated one white lady in my life. and that was when I was under 8 yrs old. so I guess that wasn't dating.

"Once you go Black, you don't go back!" Lol, well some women are hot and some are not. Dating interracially can feel exotic, different in some respects, and sometimes you just feel more comfortable. Black women are hot. Well so are Puerto Rican, Irish, Italian, Jewish, etc, etc.

While I've dated quite a lot of different women, I chose to date someone down to Earth and "real." So to me it doesn't matter what color they are but what is in their heart, personality and soul.

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