Breakup Survival Kit

Breakup Survival Kit

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auroraforever is offline auroraforever Post #31  June 18,2009, 7:16pm
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The last reply I wrote was to all who have written but Skytime put words that reached to my deepest level. Thanks again.
 
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kiram77 is offline kiram77 Post #32  February 22,2010, 6:59am
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I've been doing all of these for two months now. I'm still in so much pain. It was a total 180. Great NYE weekend, then, after being together for 7 months, I was dumped. He's 12 years older than I am. He had some ED issues. I asked him to see a doctor because it was upsetting him, not me. Then, Wham, Nice Knowing Ya. I fight the urge everyday to contact him. I feel very empty. I'm going out a lot, hanging out with friends, exercising almost daily, eating right. But we were very good together in almost every way. I just want the hurt to end. I'm reading books, going to workshops. Nothing is helping. I want him back.
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jewels12 is offline jewels12 Post #33  March 12,2010, 10:17pm
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MY HUSBAND LEFT ME TWO YEARS AGO, BASICALY I THINK BECAUSE HE GOT BOARD, I REALLY DON'T KNOW. ONE WEEK WE WHERE LOOKING AT HOUSES TO BUY AND THE NEXT WEEK HE WAS GONE. IT HAS BEEN THE HARDIEST THING I HAVE EVER BEEN THROUGH.WE HAD A FAIRYTALE ROMANCE, AND SEEM VERY HAPPY, UNTILL HE BACAME A COP, AFTER THEN WE FOUGHT ONCE IN A BLUE MOON, BUT FOR THE MOST PART, I THOUGHT WE HAD A WONDERFUL MARRIAGE. HE WAS INTRODUCED TO A GIRL A WEEK AFTER HE LEFT ME, AND THEY WHERE LIVING TOGETHER 1 MONTH LATER, AFTER OUR DIVORCE, HE MARRIED HER. IT'S BEEN TWO YEARS, AND I STILL CRY OVER HIM,TALK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME,AND CAN'T TALK ABOUT US WITHOUT CRYING.IM SEVERLY DEPRESSED! WILL I EVER GET OVER IT? I COULD UNDERSTAND IF WE HAD A BAD MARRIAGE, BUT WE DIDN'T.     FOREVER IN LOVE WITH ONE MAN! JEWELS
 
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CaramelsYummy is offline CaramelsYummy Post #34  March 14,2010, 4:34pm
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No breakup survival kit would be complete without a 30 day stint in something I've tried called Dating Detox, and that is where you focus on yourself. You journal about your experiences in dating and relationships, your likes and dislikes, more specifically, you journal to get information about the ideal mate for you. You identify things that bring you hope, comfort and joy, then actively pursue them. You take care of yourself with healthy eating and exercise. You deliberately spend time around those (family, friends, loved ones) who love you for you, and nothing else. After 30 days of all that, you are left with a clear hopeful attitude and can meet a new round of people, and hopefully The ONE will be in there somewhere. And I look at the dating process this way. If we're dealing with at least average people, the sum total of your dating experiences make you more than you were before you started. A pretty nice takeaway.
 
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