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- May 7th, 2009, 04:31 pm
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D_Lion wrote :

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i didn't read the article, but i read the thread title.


Sounds like you’re learning!
What article??
- May 7th, 2009, 04:32 pm
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D_Lion wrote :

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i didn't read the article, but i read the thread title.


Sounds like you’re learning!
gee, i hope not. *worried
- May 8th, 2009, 12:51 am
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So far I've been a member of this site for about 7 months, give or take. I have fairly high standards, and the reason I joined E-harmony (besides referral) was that I wanted to meet someone and connect with them and then get into dating. Meeting people at partys or social gatherings etc never seems to hold real possibilities for relationships. I may be young, but I'm mentally in my mid thirties. I want a real relationship - not just someone to have fun with for a few months and then have something go wrong and start back at the drawing board. So far I've found ONE person that I really connected with, and turns out they never even sign on to check their account. I've had nothing but bad luck with this sight, but continue in hopes that MAYBE, just maybe, something will turn up. Not really sure what I'm doing wrong - if I'm doing anything wrong at all. Sigh. Any comments/advice/thoughts?
- May 8th, 2009, 05:08 pm
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Did you ever think that ...The Answer May just NOT be aboutME, but about the low-intellectual level, ego-centered rejects that seem to find good single people (women) like me - or us, and we just say 'no' after seeing red-flag after red-flag? It's not about our insecurities or inabilities to look at ourselves. It's about the trash that's out there - available and unattached. I'm not in denial, I don't havebad manners,and I don't lack confidence. It seems that the good guys are already spoken for.
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Designerbee wrote :

Did you ever think that ...The Answer May just NOT be aboutME, but about the low-intellectual level, ego-centered rejects that seem to find good single people (women) like me - or us, and we just say 'no' after seeing red-flag after red-flag? It's not about our insecurities or inabilities to look at ourselves. It's about the trash that's out there - available and unattached. I'm not in denial, I don't havebad manners,and I don't lack confidence. It seems that the good guys are already spoken for.
not all the good guys are spoken for Iknow this cause I'm a good guy... or at least i think so don't ever give up


- May 9th, 2009, 10:33 pm
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Lacerslove,


Having been a member for almost 2 years I have found that I am not interested in connecting with anyone over 200 miles away (most of my potential matches were 500 - 1000 miles away).


I have no desire to relocate. I own my home and have a good job / profession. I met 3 different people for coffee / dinner in that time span. Not one of them was employed (red flag!).


I wish you luck in finding someone special. One thing E-Harmony membership taught me was to reaffirm how much I enjoy being independent and single. However, I am much older than you are.


If the ONE doesn't check his account what does that tell you?

- May 13th, 2009, 04:54 pm
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Designerbee wrote :
Did you ever think that ...The Answer May just NOT be aboutME, but about the low-intellectual level, ego-centered rejects that seem to find good single people (women) like me - or us, and we just say 'no' after seeing red-flag after red-flag? It's not about our insecurities or inabilities to look at ourselves. It's about the trash that's out there - available and unattached. I'm not in denial, I don't havebad manners,and I don't lack confidence. It seems that the good guys are already spoken for.
nope. there are plenty of good people around, you just have to be open to meeting them.
- May 14th, 2009, 01:09 am
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Lacerslove wrote :
So far I've been a member of this site for about 7 months, give or take. I have fairly high standards, and the reason I joined E-harmony (besides referral) was that I wanted to meet someone and connect with them and then get into dating. Meeting people at partys or social gatherings etc never seems to hold real possibilities for relationships. I may be young, but I'm mentally in my mid thirties. I want a real relationship - not just someone to have fun with for a few months and then have something go wrong and start back at the drawing board. So far I've found ONE person that I really connected with, and turns out they never even sign on to check their account. I've had nothing but bad luck with this sight, but continue in hopes that MAYBE, just maybe, something will turn up. Not really sure what I'm doing wrong - if I'm doing anything wrong at all. Sigh. Any comments/advice/thoughts?
date an older woman? it's all the trend now.
- May 14th, 2009, 01:10 am
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I'm a good guy and have been single since 1999. I'm def not spoken for lol
- May 14th, 2009, 11:50 pm
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