I have to concede your point ... I had the same experience with $50 k women demanding $150 k men: I was always ignored when I wrote them.
Outside of large extremes, I do think it's fine to reach outside of stated preferances. Although I admit I'm suspicious when a 20 - 25 woman writes me (which is common - and the suspicion is typically warranted), if a woman is 30 or 50 I'll usually read her profile, rather than make a knee-jerk reaction on age.
You go for 50K women DLion? Huh...misunderestimated you.
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