Singlers, do you still dream about your wedding?


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PY is offline PY Post #11  April 20,2009, 1:37pm

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Same like VB girl...not necessarily dream about it...but think about it from time-to-time...the first dance....the toast...I even thought of one perfect song as a background when we recite our vows ( ), rehearsal dinners, the fun times when we go from tables to tables...visiting our friends and chat....everybody starts hitting their glasses with forks and we have to do the 'obligatory' kiss...thinking about having somebody do a video on our previous lives as singles and how we meet, etc. The anticipation of her walking on the isle....and I'm thinking how the heck I can prevent myself from balling when I do my vows to her...*sigh*


*sigh* not that I spend too much time thinking about this...





My advice to you, PY-elope!Thatshould take care ofsome ofyour worries. Personally, I think "big wedding" is over-rated -especially with the high divorce rates we havenowadays. Save that money fordownpayment of your new home,upcoming babies or college funds for your kids (unless, of course,you have a rich daddy who is paying for the wedding).
haha..i think for me big wedding is inevitable and no..I don't wanna elope.


Divorce rate yes, it's high in the US, but I still have a pretty decent chance overseas...at the very least it's not 50/50 there..plus I have a much higher hope that I am not as invisible as I am here to women (romantically speaking).


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I tend to think about the rigmarole surrounding. I don't expect to get married; if I did, eloping sounds like a really good idea.
 
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jayjay,585870 wrote :

I never thinking about having a wedding. I'd like to get married again...but the ceremony means little to me. Maybe that's a guy thing.
sadden to hear that a wedding means nothing to you. i bet when you meet that right lady, it will mean everything to you.
 
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PY,585941 wrote :

Same like VB girl...not necessarily dream about it...but think about it from time-to-time...the first dance....the toast...I even thought of one perfect song as a background when we recite our vows ( ), rehearsal dinners, the fun times when we go from tables to tables...visiting our friends and chat....everybody starts hitting their glasses with forks and we have to do the 'obligatory' kiss...thinking about having somebody do a video on our previous lives as singles and how we meet, etc. The anticipation of her walking on the isle....and I'm thinking how the heck I can prevent myself from balling when I do my vows to her...*sigh*


*sigh* not that I spend too much time thinking about this...

this sounds lovely and so Asians.
 
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ameliasmiles,586522 wrote :

I know it's stupid... to be 30 and still think about my dream wedding. I've never been married, close a few times, just never actually took the plunge. I don't think about the actual wedding too much but I do think about what music I want to be playing when I walk down the isle... and even though it's not smart, I already have my "fist dance" song picked out. Haven't met anyone I would actually consider marrying, but I have the song ready... yes, yes, I am pathetic. lol
i thought about our song too...Linda Rostead and Aaron N 'I don't know much'.
 
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Pukeko...I just know you will have SO much fun planning your own wedding some day!!


But don't get worried if the guy isn't in to the planning..it's really not most guy's thing...Normally they just say.."whatever you want dear"...they care about the Bachelor party.
 
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pukeko,586668 wrote :

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I never thinking about having a wedding. I'd like to get married again...but the ceremony means little to me. Maybe that's a guy thing.


sadden to hear that a wedding means nothing to you. i bet when you meet that right lady, it will mean everything to you.
Hey kid....it's the ceremony/party that means little to me. I very much look forward to actually being married. Just not to the ceremony. Same way I look forward to completing my degree....but going through the commencement ceremony means little to me (and I will actually miss this as I have to move prior to the ceremony).


Also, listening to women longingly recount their past 'dream' weddings makes me think of the possibility of my marrying a woman who's previously had such a great ceremony. This gives me a feeling of my marriage to such a woman being somehow less special to herthan what she previously had.
 
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Ingytravel,586687 wrote :

Pukeko...I just know you will have SO much fun planning your own wedding some day!!


But don't get worried if the guy isn't in to the planning..it's really not most guy's thing...Normally they just say.."whatever you want dear"...they care about the Bachelor party.

actually, i don't dream so much about my wedding.i actuallyhaven't though of it until recently. not that i met that groom, god knows where he is. i know that i should have one just to give something back to my family. it's not so much for me or my hun . ihave a lot of relatives who are very poor and woul love a wedding. for my day i wlkajs thinking about renting a boat, let it cruise in the ocean; i will have lots of shrimps, chocolate, wine and cake. i'll haul all my relatives from their poor villages in a big bus, put them in the boat and i swear they will give a night to remember. i won't even accept their $20 wedding present.


i would be just fine getting married in my backyard or at the city hall.
 
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jayjay,586746 wrote :


pukeko,586668 wrote :


jayjay,585870 wrote :


I never thinking about having a wedding. I'd like to get married again...but the ceremony means little to me. Maybe that's a guy thing.


sadden to hear that a wedding means nothing to you. i bet when you meet that right lady, it will mean everything to you.


Hey kid....it's the ceremony/party that means little to me. I very much look forward to actually being married. Just not to the ceremony. Same way I look forward to completing my degree....but going through the commencement ceremony means little to me (and I will actually miss this as I have to move prior to the ceremony).


Also, listening to women longingly recount their past 'dream' weddings makes me think of the possibility of my marrying a woman who's previously had such a great ceremony. This gives me a feeling of my marriage to such a woman being somehow less special to herthan what she previously had.


congratulations for completing your study jayjay. too bad that you won't go to your commencement. i probably won't go to mine either. but i may have to because my professors would want to see me there. that means i might have to take a day of work. i don't care about the commencement, i am really sick and tired with my thesis. i just want to turn in the darn thing.
 
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Wait..did you say shrimp, chocolate, wine and cake? Now THAT is MY perfect dream wedding!!!! YUMMY
 
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