DontCallMe_IllCallYou is offline DontCallMe_IllCallYou Post #171  May 22,2009, 9:45am
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I am single for two reasons...

1. The ex left me... which wasn't a bad thing. We should have parted years before. We just held on for the kids I think. It's very amicable.

2. Because all of the men I encounter are looking for long term relationships or marriage. I am not. I'm looking for someone to have fun with occassionally (and the hook up - blush blush - a girl's got needs ya know!) and am confortable with.
 
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Angie2009 is offline Angie2009 Post #172  May 26,2009, 8:15am
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Why I am single . Because the last man I was with used me and I ended up pregnant by him. As soon as I told him it was * Cya* . I haven't been looking for anyone in the last 14 months , but figured I would try to get back into the dating scene.
 
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notyertypical is offline notyertypical Post #173  May 26,2009, 8:44am
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Just haven't hooked up with "the one" yet.I've had fun trying,and had several serious,long lasting relationships-but they fell apart for one reason or another.
 
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KungFuFtr is offline KungFuFtr Post #174  May 26,2009, 10:57pm
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"Why are YOU single"?
Oh Gawd I HATE this question!
Yet...I'm going to answer it.
(Laughing out Loud!)

I don't know about you...But I'll have coworkers, friends and family ask this question. I initially take it as a compliment, because they ask the question with a confused tonality. But then I have to justify or blame my current situation.

For me, I just need to "get out there" and surround myself with women. I work with mostly women; yet, I'm not into dating coworkers. When I'm not at work, I'm at the gym. I feel weird about approaching women at the gym though.

Strangely, it seems when I actively approach women or search for dates I have no luck. When I don't try, things just fit into place and I end up meeting, dating and ending up in a relationship. Can anyone else relate?
 
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