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I'm almost broke, looking for a job, and I drive a used sub-compact.





I also look like Ralph Macchio, and I don't mean how he looked in his teenage glory years but how he looks now.
- April 23rd, 2009, 11:04 pm
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i am single because.... not a clue.. , im a nice person, i am polite to everyone, i share, i walk on the street when someone happens to be walkin the other way down the sidewalk, i dont drink, i dont do drugs, i make rediculous amounts of money for my age





BUT i am not beautiful so there fore females of all shapes color and sizes want nothing to do with me, not even as a friend.... so yea thats why im single
- April 25th, 2009, 01:53 am
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intex: what youknow about women is not a lot.


most women i know would rather be with a guy who isn't model attractive yet is polite, charming, upbeat, and friendly.


you should really evaluate how you appear to people- you may be giving off bad vibes without even realizing it.
- April 25th, 2009, 12:36 pm
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Why am I single? Oh man, this could go on forever....lol


I think one reason is women really don't like nice guys, without having to have to go through jerks first.


2nd one is if my heart gets broken, that'll be THE LAST time I ever think of trusting someone ever again.
- April 25th, 2009, 09:44 pm
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I amsingle because I refuse to settle, but the few times when I started to I ended up ruining my relationship because I was unhappy.


So, for now I will focus on going to school raising my kids,,,and hope for the best. I refuse to live wondering about love. I chased loved for to long and now it is time for it to find me.
- April 26th, 2009, 10:31 am
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Why am I single? Because I keep marrying, dating the wrong guys. Married twice, dated alot. Somehow I seem to end up with a liar, a cheater, or a maniac. So the answer is to regroup here and FOCUS and hope.
- April 26th, 2009, 12:25 pm
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MsFabCookie I WILL ALWAYS BE ALONE AND I AM HAPPY FOR THAT!!!!!

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I am single cause I am a virgin until marriage and men do not respect that.


- April 27th, 2009, 04:05 pm
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I'm not really sure why I'm single, it's just kinda turned out that way. Some days it bothers me, others it doesn't.


Hmmm ... pity those of you based in North America can't get into a big room together for a meet and greet!
- April 27th, 2009, 09:42 pm
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Why am I single? Honestly...probably because of the way I look and act. I am sarcastic and have a great sense of humor, but if people aren't ready for it...it can scare them away easily. Plus, I am a tall guy and average sized but I MMA box a lot just for fun and stress reliefand I have a few tattoos (coverable ones, but many know about them). So, often times, I am covered in bruises and have a few black eyes here and there...not exactly the greatest "nice guy" look. I am not interested in the girls who want a jerk, because they honestly become very dissapointed after spending an hour with me. I am shy (not low self-esteem...just not great at starting a conversation) and I am looking for a job (again...not great when meeting people..."did I mention I am unemployed?" lol). So my physical looks don't exactly attract the girls that I mentally and emotionally strive for.


That's why I think I'm single anyway.
- April 28th, 2009, 10:44 pm
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MsFabCookie wrote :

I am single cause I am a virgin until marriage and men do not respect that.

There are men out there who do respect that, but they are just so much harder to find. I just wanted to tell you not to give up.
- April 28th, 2009, 11:13 pm
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