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DDjr,557099 wrote :

Do we all long for the bygone days of arranged marriages? (Yes, that's rhetorical.)


The point is that EH's computers can only do so much. Two real people in the real world have to interact with each other and determine their fate.


What I think you need to take away from this is what I take away from the women that I have met through EH. YOU WERE MATCHED WITH SOMEONE "COMPATIBLE"! This is what keeps me paying month after month which nets about one or two dates a year.


What you do need to think about is why your priorities didn't match and why you didn't find out sooner.


As is said repeatedly around here: Decide if you answered your profile questions absolutely honestly. The more accurately you portrayed yourself the more compatible your matches are going to be. Now is a good time to review your match setting. Do you need to tighten down your setting or loosen them up?


Ask yourself what YOUR REAL relationship goals are. It sounds like you haven't been honest with yourself.
eHarmony can only do so much. Why would you even think that someone may have been inacurate in their questionnaire??


It is kind of ridiculous to throw that out there when there are so many factors that eHarmony can never know about. Maybe it was one of the thousand other issues that people can have.


I know that I have had MANY matches that are not compatible. Actually so far from compatible that you cannot get there by car.
 
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