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Jacquesne is offline Jacquesne Post #11  March 31,2009, 9:41am
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Shelby,555178 wrote :

How old are you two? You're playing games with each other like you're in high school. Don't look for excuses to call him (are those photos that important?) and tell him to grow up (disguising his voice? ) Do you really want some one that immature?


Sadly, you're in the middle of a lesson about learning which fish to keep and which to throw back into the sea. This one is no keeper. Go look for a better fish.
Seriously. If he can't even spend the money to get a real voice changer he isn't worth your time!


The games you describe are ridiculous. I'm 25 and I have more maturity. I'm allowed to play those games and pass it off as immaturity (a card I seriously need to use more often).


Either challenge him directly or call the whole thing off. Have the self respect to know you're above such things. If you can't communicate directly the relationship is not going to last. Relationships need a foundation of trust and solid communication (which is a major component of trust) and it sounds like you have neither. You're bailing water out of a boat with no bottom. If you don't fix the hole it's pointless. Either swim to a better boat or break out the hammer and nails.


By "fix" I don't mean "play his games." I mean walk up to him and say "W-T-F mate?" Either your confidence breaks him out of whatever dream world he's living in where he thinks this is right way to behave or it doesn't and you know for sure.


Take charge. If it goes badly blame me. I won't mind =).


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PY is offline PY Post #12  March 31,2009, 10:03am

Sometimes...just be a bigger person and take the high road.

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You're crazy in love with him, but you didn't even recognize his voice.
 
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shellyg is offline shellyg Post #13  March 31,2009, 5:22pm
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PY,556932 wrote :

You're crazy in love with him, but you didn't even recognize his voice.

You know, I was wondering the same.
 
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