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AdviceGuy212 is offline AdviceGuy212 Post #1  February 22,2009, 8:27pm
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No woman has ever been able to give me a definite answer on this one. I've heard some women say they don't want to sleep witha guy who's a virgin. But, yet, how's a guy supposed to lose his virginity unless some woman sleeps with him?
 
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I don't get it. Why would a woman NOT want to sleep with a guy who's a virgin?


To any woman who knows what she wants sexually, I would think she'd see this as a perfect opportunity to 'train' this guy to do it exactly the way she likes it best.


After all, he has nothing else to compare it to! Well, . . . almost.
 
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I've never heard any of my girl friends say that before. The only people I've ever heard say that women say that have been men on here. I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure there are some women more than willing to teach a virgin guy the ropes
 
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When my sis was 28 she slept with a 20 year old virgin. She was quite proud of it and would bragg about it. They did have a 5 year relationship and was engage to be married. Sorry I dont have any of my own experiences, but from my sis's, I do know there are some women out there that will sleep with a virgin.
 
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I had a friend once who said she would not sleep with this guy she liked because he was a virgin and she wasn't. She told me she did not want to be the one to take that from him. It should be from someone he loved. And I thought that was really sweet. She was in love with this guy. But know how many guys she had been with it would not of been fair to him she said
 
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I always seek out virgins... STD free!!! You get to be their "first" so you're actually likely to be remembered... not just one out of the 20 or so other people he'll be with. Also, they don't have horrible habits of what their last gf liked.... and they're way more likely, especially if they're "older" to want instruction. What's not to love? Women also expect virgins to be rather "quick" at first, so there really isn't any pressure.. It's a win/win.
 
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See,Dude:there are plenty of women willing to sleep with a "virgin",my guess is,those that don't are looking for an "experienced" guy. I have a buddy who fits that category (NOT experienced) and he's SO insecure about it.I tell him to relax,he's got a lot women like,but he won't listen.He can even "guarantee" No stds-without protection (hope that doesn't sound tacky) but in todays day and age,that might be a BIG bonus.Anyway-relax.The right lady will come along...I have a feeling you are young.(even if you aren't-patience IS a virtue!)
 
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I wouldn't stress about it. There are plenty of girls who would be just fine initiating a virgin. Personally, it might make me feel kind of special being the first person to ever show someone how it feels. I've never met a woman who's said she refuses to sleep with a virgin, either. If you're just looking for sex, don't worry about it, you'll be able to find someone who will give it to you. If, on the other hand, what you're actually worried about is this being a dealbreaker in an otherwise serious or potentially serious relationship, I can assure you that it's really not a big deal to a great many girls.
 
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Wouldn't bother me a bit, well men in my age group likely aren't virgins. My 1st bf was a virgin, but then, so was I. (laughs at the awkwardness, as I relfect)


Why tell anyone you are a virgin??? Educate yourself about the art of love making, then git-er-done
 
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glassonlyhalffull_fillit,501644 wrote :

Wouldn't bother me a bit, well men in my age group likely aren't virgins. My 1st bf was a virgin, but then, so was I. (laughs at the awkwardness, as I relfect)


Why tell anyone you are a virgin??? Educate yourself about the art of love making, then git-er-done
I really like your posts!
 
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