Twenty Questions to Ask Yourself

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eharmonyadvice is offline eharmonyadvice — Advice Official Moderator Post #1  February 22,2009, 8:16pm

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Let's play 20 questions: Get to know yourself better by contemplating these queries!
 
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notyertypical is offline notyertypical Post #2  February 22,2009, 8:16pm
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I think these are some good questions.Theymerit somedeep thought on the part of those answering and deep consideration by anyone listening to the answers given.
 
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angelpoet is offline angelpoet Post #3  February 22,2009, 11:07pm
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notyertypical,501068 wrote :

I think these are some good questions.Theymerit somedeep thought on the part of those answering and deep consideration by anyone listening to the answers given.
so why did you choose to comment yet not divulge....?
 
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lol..well angelpoet why did you also comment without divulging?(sorry couldn't help commenting)
It took me close to two hours to answer the above questions.   I gained some insight into my self and the people around me and I reviewd my iteractions.  I think both the anger and the enemy question had me reeling.  But both forced me to look at my own handling of situations.  I don't hold grudes, so it made me look deeper.  I hope others gain as much personal insight as I was able.  Thank you for the questions e-harmony team.
 
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These questions are definitely the ones to answer if you really desire to know your path.  I think if any are left unknown, then some serious soul searching is in order.  The answers will fill your heart and may bring a tear to your eye.  They reveal something to each of us we need to be more aware of
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #6  February 11,2010, 2:37pm
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Geez, it's bad enough I have to put up with these questions in GC.
 
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1. Who is the most important person in your life, and why?

My nephews. Why? Because they're just like me. Sarcastic, smart and kind.


2. What is the one dream for your life you most look forward to achieving?

Seeing all three of my nephews graduate and move on to excellent careers.


3. Who has the capacity to make you angrier than anyone else in your life, and what in particular does he or she do to make you so angry?

No one can make you angry. People can be annoying. In those cases it's best to just walk away and not take it personally.

4. Who has the capacity to make you feel loved more than anyone else in your life, and what in particular does he or she do to cause you to feel so lovable?

No one can you make you feel loved. Love is something you work on from within.

5. How do you feel about yourself—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually?

I could use a little bit of work, but I'm working on it.

6. When do you feel inspired? How does it feel when you are inspired?

I feel inspired when I play and listen to music; when I read or write poetry; when I discuss or joke with friends.

7. What is the most important thing in the world to you?

Now you asked for a "thing" which suggest an object; I don't value objects quite highly

8. If you had one day to live, how would you want to spend it?


Hanging out with my nephews


9. When do you feel most afraid?


Fear, what fear?


10. If you could accomplish only one thing during the rest of your life, what would it be?

Nothing really, accomplish not what you can not take with you to the after life.

11. What bores you? Why is this?

Gradually, this quiz is boring me. Hence, I'm becoming more flippant with each question.

12. How important is money to you? How much time do you spend thinking about it?

Not very important.

13. What is the role of God in your life? Do you believe there is a God, and if so, what is God like in relation to you?

There is a God.

14. What three interests are you most passionate about?

Gosh, this is tiring. I'm passionate about nothing.

15. Who is your biggest enemy, and precisely how and why did this person become your enemy?

What do you think I'm superman, batman? Who in the world has enemies?

16. How important is food to you? Do you feel disciplined when it comes to eating?

Food is not important. Beer on the other hand.


17. Does the idea of being married to the same person for the rest of your life sound appealing to you—or not so appealing? What is there about it that you would especially like or not like?

Depends on who the gal is.

18. Do you consider yourself emotionally healthy? In what ways are you especially healthy, and in what ways could you use improvement?

I'm pretty healthy, but do need some work.

19. Do you argue very much with the people closest to you? How does it usually turn out?

No if their close to you why would you argue?

20. What specifically would you like your closest friends to say about you at your funeral?


What is up with these questions. I live for the here and now.

Man were these questions boring and tedious.
 
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I'm going to answer these questions. I like them. But I wont be answering them on here.
 
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Nanette wrote :
I'm going to answer these questions. I like them. But I wont be answering them on here.

I will if you will?
 
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youll answer in jokes
 
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