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What the Evolved Man Wants to Hear from You

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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #51  June 29,2010, 3:19pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Let us dispel a myth: All women are not fragile in need of self-worth stroking. So go ahead, say what you want and not what you think she wants to hear!
Except, don't forget to admire her shoes and give her jewelry for special occasions.
 
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angelofmerci wrote :
I agree with what you say about communications but sometimes what is said and what really happens are two different matters. An example would be how to handle the finances. Both parties reach an agreement but then down the road one party changes theagreement or totally breaks it.


In this type of situation no matter how much you communicated and how well your trust would take a beating creating cracks in the relationship.
I'll expand on this in the event it helps anyone out there.

In theory my ex and I made agreements about spending money. And then she'd get a pedicure, an expense that I thought was totally outrageous. And we'd have a subsequent "disagreement" about it. However, if she would have communicated what it meant to her, the psychic value, I could have seen that and we could have come to some sort of compromise on the expense. Without communication, all I saw was $$$$$$$$$$$ and broken agreements.
 
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Nanette wrote :
that was dumb
Hey im not dubm!
 
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