adding on to my last comment... I only had to read the first two to know that this is all wrong and somehow mixed up. Men= short and sweet.... Women= long and drawn out.
I must still be a caveman. She can have her own life and i'll support her 100%. But PLEASE - MOST men still love sex and food as their favorite past time. Throw in a little sports TV and thats what gives us aVERY HAPPYhome life. The first two can be knocked off in as little as 2 hrs a day for a women and the rest of the day is hers. Listen ladies, those 2 hours of sex and food (i'm not even asking you to cook every day. Just make the food plans or have it available in the fridge). All the other "stuff" you like to do as a couple is MUCH easier to come by with your "guy" because we're HAPPY!!! Remember women, I'm giving you the 2 hour a day secret to keep a committed happy partner. The 2 hours may not be in a row, but all you need is 120 minutes of dedication every 24 hours and the other 22 hours you control with or without your spouse.
I must still be a caveman. She can have her own life and i'll support her 100%. But PLEASE - MOST men still love sex and food as their favorite past time. Throw in a little sports TV and thats what gives us aVERY HAPPYhome life. The first two can be knocked off in as little as 2 hrs a day for a women and the rest of the day is hers. Listen ladies, those 2 hours of sex and food (i'm not even asking you to cook every day. Just make the food plans or have it available in the fridge). All the other "stuff" you like to do as a couple is MUCH easier to come by with your "guy" because we're HAPPY!!! Remember women, I'm giving you the 2 hour a day secret to keep a committed happy partner. The 2 hours may not be in a row, but all you need is 120 minutes of dedication every 24 hours and the other 22 hours you control with or without your spouse.
Thanks SpeakinTheTruth! I believe I could schedule that in!
I love nothing more than lots of sex and I also love hearing the sound of a football game on the television while I am cooking and then both of us watching the game together. I am a true football buff, love to cook and love sex. Men are the best thing in the world.
To Speaking the truth, As a recently divorced woman who was in a 21 yr dead marriage, I would LOVE to have a man that wanted to have sex and food eachday for two hours (and hopefully it would only take 15 minutes for the food!) ;-P I would GLADLY do all that and more to please a man who was loving and pleasing to ME! Amazing how many "dead bodies" there are out there when it comes to intimacy!
I agree with Emarldpartner. I'm a very sexual woman, and love to cook. I think there is nothing sexier then a man who is into football! Hanging out drinking Margarittas or beers watching the game together, him enjoying the food Ive prepared, and then some fantastic love-making!! Not always necessarily in that order!
I love nothing more than lots of sex and I also love hearing the sound of a football game on the television while I am cooking and then both of us watching the game together. I am a true football buff, love to cook and love sex. Men are the best thing in the world.
Thanks! I hope you find a great guy who realizes what a great heart you have. Best of luck
I really like this article, and I am soooo happy to be dating an evolved man. What we have seems to be a real appreciatation for each other rather than just trying to make the other person feel good. Don't get me wrong, it's nice when someone cares enough about you to want to compliment you and make you feel good and lift you up, but something about sincerely appreciating that person makes the relationship feel really effortless and "right". I think men (evolved men anyway) aren't too different from women in that they simply want to be appreciated.
At the same time, I absolutely love sex and cooking... and so does he! How very lucky we are to have found a kindred spirit in each other.
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