Patient Pleaser. Hmm! I think they are right. I tend to play down my needs and/or wants because I don't want to seem demanding. It probably would be better for me to be more assertive about what I want/need. I am also used to being very independent so that could be part of it.
I didn't like a couple of answers - the slam fingers in the cardoor? I would have just asked the host(ess) for some ice! Same with telling the news and getting v-mail - I would just leave a message if I really wanted to tell someone.
I took this test out of sheer curiosity. I'm already married. (Happily, needs to be seen). 10 years so far but definitely looking for distraction. Ladies,you need to realize something. I am only speaking for myself, but there are undoubtedly other males on this planet with a similar mind-set. Men, (most) men, like variety. Not necessarily a variety of partners, but keep the love life interesting. Once you've harnessed yhourself a man doesn't mean you should stop being attractive and sexual. That's what causes cheating feelings. You need to keep us interested. You want to stray to other fields, where grass is greener and longer. Apparently, according to all the crap I read on I-net, men are more prone to do so. Be the sexy beings that you are. Instead of fantasizing about other guys and what you would do with them, do that with the guy you have. You would be amazed at the rekindling of passion that could create. Cheers. Still looking for a distraction as my wife is an ice cube.
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