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If you had to choose, would you rather be exceptionally smart, or exceptionally good-looking?


- November 13th, 2008, 02:09 pm
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I'd rather be exceptionally smart, then I can create machines, invent technology and pills that can make me look exceptionally good looking.


- November 13th, 2008, 02:23 pm
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eharmonyadvice, wrote :

If you had to choose, would you rather be exceptionally smart, or exceptionally good-looking?


I don't look bad and am fairly smart so I am not sure what to recommend or give you my opinion on...


I guess I would like to have more hair, however women that worry about hair are pretty shallow to me!


My problem is that the percentages of women that meet my criteria are either married or have a boyfriend... Unfortunately for them, most of the guy's are ugly... but they either have a lot of money, are exceptionally great in bed (which I doubt!) or the most common one- "He pretty much let's me be in control..."
- November 13th, 2008, 02:32 pm
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How about this: I'drather be good looking, then I could educate myself and become exceptionally smart as well!
- November 13th, 2008, 02:39 pm
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To hypothetical for me - I could never decide.
- November 13th, 2008, 02:39 pm
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You can have both.
- November 13th, 2008, 02:57 pm
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eharmonyadvice, wrote :

If you had to choose, would you rather be exceptionally smart, or exceptionally good-looking?


I'd rather be exceptionally smart and therefore exceptionally rich and therefore get all the trophy chicks I can handle and then some.
- November 13th, 2008, 03:12 pm
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tombutler wrote :

eharmonyadvice, wrote :

If you had to choose, would you rather be exceptionally smart, or exceptionally good-looking?





I don't look bad and am fairly smart so I am not sure what to recommend or give you my opinion on...


I guess I would like to have more hair, however women that worry about hair are pretty shallow to me!


My problem is that the percentages of women that meet my criteria are either married or have a boyfriend... Unfortunately for them, most of the guy's are ugly... but they either have a lot of money, are exceptionally great in bed (which I doubt!) or the most common one- "He pretty much let's me be in control..."
Tombutler - No, you don't need more hair....many women (including myself) find balding men attractive....but, even hotter, is when they are balding and say to he77 with it and shave it off, but keep some facial hair....OMG!!!! I will have died and gone to heaven on earth!


In answer to the OP, I'd rather be exceptionally smart. Beauty fades but intelligence and personality are who we are and are forever, baby.
- November 13th, 2008, 03:20 pm
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eharmonyadvice, wrote :

If you had to choose, would you rather be exceptionally smart, or exceptionally good-looking?


I'll take smart any day of the week. I can always change how I look and improve on what I have, but without brains, I ain't goin' anywhere that's good.
- November 13th, 2008, 05:25 pm
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Geez since I'm mediocre in both departments, I'll take either, it's animprovement either way! j/k
- November 13th, 2008, 06:13 pm
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