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legend29 is offline legend29 Post #1  September 19,2008, 7:26pm
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I think I think too much, but toniteI was thinking aboumaking a list of confessions:


1) I do not liketraditional gifts men give women: chocoalte'flowers'perfume/lingerie


2) I do want to be in a meaningful relationship


3) I laughall the time to keep from crying


4) No one really knows the 'real' me


5) I am afrraid of committment


6) And my biggest confession thatI am truly ahamed of: I knewI didn't really love my husband whenI married him and was happy when I ended the marriage. I knew he was able to afford me comfort, family, and what I thought I wanted, as per the so-called "American Dream". The saddest part is I think he always knew why I married him, and he married me anyway, because he loved me. That makes the shame even worse for me, because he is truly one of the last, great, nice guys, andI wish him well and pray for his happiness everyday.


So.....what great confessions would you like to get off your chest?


(this was very cathartic for me.....try it and it may help you as well!)
 
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pinz is offline pinz Post #2  September 19,2008, 8:08pm
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1) I confess that I think my imperfections make me perfect ...ly human.


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TinkerKat is offline TinkerKat Post #3  September 19,2008, 8:47pm
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legend29, wrote :

I think I think too much, but toniteI was thinking aboumaking a list of confessions:


1) I do not liketraditional gifts men give women: chocoalte'flowers'perfume/lingerie


2) I do want to be in a meaningful relationship


3) I laughall the time to keep from crying


4) No one really knows the 'real' me


5) I am afrraid of committment


6) And my biggest confession thatI am truly ahamed of: I knewI didn't really love my husband whenI married him and was happy when I ended the marriage. I knew he was able to afford me comfort, family, and what I thought I wanted, as per the so-called "American Dream". The saddest part is I think he always knew why I married him, and he married me anyway, because he loved me. That makes the shame even worse for me, because he is truly one of the last, great, nice guys, andI wish him well and pray for his happiness everyday.


So.....what great confessions would you like to get off your chest?


(this was very cathartic for me.....try it and it may help you as well!)
+1 on the first five.


6) I know now I was never really 'in love' with my (now -ex) husband and that we are better apart.


7) I don't just want to love someone, I want to be 'in love"


Whew...that was good.
 
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I confess that I think confessions on a public forum are a bit too much information for me to give.
 
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ThePriestess,265116 wrote :


I can't drive a stick.


Hit the toilet seat a lot do you? [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-tongue-out.gif[/img]
 
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ThePriestess,265116 wrote :

I can't drive a stick.
That's unforgiveable
 
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legend29, wrote :

I think I think too much, but toniteI was thinking aboumaking a list of confessions:


1) I do not liketraditional gifts men give women: chocoalte'flowers'perfume/lingerie


2) I do want to be in a meaningful relationship


3) I laughall the time to keep from crying


4) No one really knows the 'real' me


5) I am afrraid of committment


6) And my biggest confession thatI am truly ahamed of: I knewI didn't really love my husband whenI married him and was happy when I ended the marriage. I knew he was able to afford me comfort, family, and what I thought I wanted, as per the so-called "American Dream". The saddest part is I think he always knew why I married him, and he married me anyway, because he loved me. That makes the shame even worse for me, because he is truly one of the last, great, nice guys, andI wish him well and pray for his happiness everyday.


So.....what great confessions would you like to get off your chest?


(this was very cathartic for me.....try it and it may help you as well!)
I eat the cream out of Oreo cookes first. Whew, that feels much better!
 
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TinkerKat,265067 wrote :

legend29, wrote :


I think I think too much, but toniteI was thinking aboumaking a list of confessions:


1) I do not liketraditional gifts men give women: chocoalte'flowers'perfume/lingerie


2) I do want to be in a meaningful relationship


3) I laughall the time to keep from crying


4) No one really knows the 'real' me


5) I am afrraid of committment


6) And my biggest confession thatI am truly ahamed of: I knewI didn't really love my husband whenI married him and was happy when I ended the marriage. I knew he was able to afford me comfort, family, and what I thought I wanted, as per the so-called "American Dream". The saddest part is I think he always knew why I married him, and he married me anyway, because he loved me. That makes the shame even worse for me, because he is truly one of the last, great, nice guys, andI wish him well and pray for his happiness everyday.


So.....what great confessions would you like to get off your chest?


(this was very cathartic for me.....try it and it may help you as well!)


+1 on the first five.


6) I know now I was never really 'in love' with my (now -ex) husband and that we are better apart.


7) I don't just want to love someone, I want to be 'in love"


Whew...that was good.
I didn't mean to make light of your sharing what you did. Forgive yourself. We all pick relationships for different reasons at different times in our lives and we become so much wiser for that experience. Hanging on to the shame is gonna stunt your growth so let it go.
 
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