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I've been dating a guy for about 2 months - we are both divorced - he has kids and shares custody. He seems interested and keen.
But there are times I feel he is being secretive and I am unsure of whether I am being overly suspicious or whether he is being secretive. For example, I will tell him my plans - things like tomorrow nite I am going to the movies with Jane . He will tell me if he has his children but for other outings he will just say he is going out and later he'll mention that his friend was a she in conversation but never a name.
I'll talk about my friends by name - but he'll mostly refer to them by something descriptive about them like "my polish friend."
I think some of this is normal - but some of it makes me think he may be still dating other people - and I guess we may not have clearly drawn that line yet.... Am I being overly suspicious?
Should I bring it up with him? Is it a red flag?
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