Yes. In my own mind, when I stated my intention, I knew it would have to be with someone I click with and have feelings for. I have been hearing complaints (reasonable complaints) from women for years now ... they say they are sick of meeting guys who just want to hook up and do not want serious committed relationships. Now that a guy shows up to say that he genuinely wants a relationship, people claim he is just settling for anyone. It's as if women dream of finding guys who have a desire to be faithful to one partner, but then when a guy like that shows up, it's a different story.