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How much do you like the guy? Look relationships are work and it would be great if they weren't but they probably wouldn't mean much either. Do you like the guy enough to give him the benefit of the doubt? Or do you prefer to assume the worst in guys you have been on a few dates with? Maybe he is and maybe he isn't with someone else but the point is that you don't know so in my humble opinion you shouldn't assume. I agree with the other guy that you make it known what you want/expect from a relationship and if he is not on the same page he will let you know or let you go. But I would not hold that conversation while letting thoughts of other women go scurrying by. Do it with a honest and clear mind so he doesn't feel threatened or pick up on your worry which if it is unjustified might be reason for him to wonder about you. Everyone wants to love and be loved but so many of us find it so hard to start each new relationship with trust and integrity. What ever happened to innocent until proven guilty? Take it easy, it will work or it won't but you will still be alive and have a healthy attitude for the next guy if not as long as you stay POSITIVE about you. Just keep your side of the street clean and make that your focus rather than what they are doing/not doing. Without the crystal ball none of us possesses we will never know who we will or won't end up with so just relax and let the relationship unfold while communicating your desires and setting your boundaries. Good luck.
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