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BikerBeagle is offline BikerBeagle Post #3  November 20,2009, 2:29pm
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thinks everyone should just ask themselves, WWBBD?

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It's only been 3 dates / 3 weeks.

I think it's safe to assume that he's seeing someone else ...which is still his right to do at this point ...probably someone he met before you. I'm not sure you are "backup girl", but certainly #2 in his life ...you have to get used to it.

The problem I see here is that you are getting too attached to him too quickly. You should be out dating other people too ...not necessarily out of revenge, but to avoid "one-itis" - that's a bad thing.

Let him know you are interested in seeing him, but if he can't make a date for a weekend (for whatever reason), then you need to find something else to do.

"Don't make someone a priority who is willing to make you an option"
 
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