Hello all...newbie here. My friend raves about the great advice she has received so I figured I'd post...
Before I get into my question, I'll just give some background. I've been seeing this one guy for only about 3 weeks. We've gone on 3 dates so far and talk about every other day on the phone. Overall, I think things are going great and we both are interested in each other so far.
I'm struggling with the fact that there seems to be some elusiveness on his part. For example, if I ask how his night was or weekend, he gives a very general comment such as, "it was good" or "it was uneventful", but doesn't get into details. And I realize he doesn't own me any at this point but I've dated other guys who have given specifics such as "oh it was good, I had boxing tonight etc".
He's also pretty elusive about his weekend plans and I never hear from him over the weekends. I know we've only been dating for 3 weeks however something about this isn't sitting right with me.
Is being elusive about plans just par for the course when it comes to dating? And aside from the secrecy of the whole situation, I don't want to date someone that isn't going to take me out on the weekend.
I'm thinking I need to talk about this with him the next time we get together and am wondering what you all think. Do you think it's too soon to address this or is it better to bring this up now instead of wasting my time on him if we aren't on the same page. And what do you think I should say?
Any advice is appreciated! Thx!
Last edited by jens84; November 22,2009 at 7:45pm.
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