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Recently I have come to the realization that my partner may have a sexual addiction. At the beginning it went unnoticed because like all couples, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. But as the sexual "spark" waned, his remained constant. He consistently bargains with me to get him off in some way, for example, he will ask me to later give him oral sex for picking up the tab at the restaurant we are currently eating at. Or he will let me pick out a present or give me money in exchange for intercourse. Sometimes when he is intoxicated he uses force to get what he wants, but when he is sober and I refuse to be sexual with him, he starts a fight or tells me I am not doing my job as the woman in the relationship to keep him satisfied, even though his needs are excessive and exhausting. He doesn't believe me when I tell him he has impacted my ability to be intimate, I feel less attracted to him because of his constant pleading. He cannot go one full day without mentioning sex. He feels the need to map out all sexual conquests hours before I even get home from work, like a guarantee he will get off that night. He has admitted to paying up to 300 dollars at a time at rub and tugs when he went through sexual droughts as a single man, he is aroused by pornography that is disgusting and wrong (in my opinion), and still refuses to accept that he may have a problem. What do I do??!!??
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