Maypost My heart breaks for you. Being a widow is a hard thing to work out itself and being a young widow is doubly hard.
I encourage you to be honest about your status, I know there are caring men out there in your age group-it may take some time to find someone and you may get tired of looking and thats ok too.
I have yo-yod (Is that a word?) about dating several times in the going on 5 years I've been a widow. No long contracts with EH for me!. Sometimes dating isn't worth the stress and turmoil it brings, especially for a single parent.
As far as what goes thru a guys head though..well I'll let the guys here tell you that-I have a pretty good idea it's mostly sex but I may be wrong .
Just know you aren't alone and try to manage a day at a time without expectations of change..change comes when we aren't looking for it I've discovered.
Be well sweetie
Roxy
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