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Since she put you off, it is her burden to contact you (personally, being put off like this is sufficient reason to find a new partner.) That said, if you want to contact her in a week or so, I think it is well within your right (not communicating = not having a relationship.)
At two years, I think she should be accepting some degree of your input into merging into her life – otherwise you are either signing up for a permanent non-cohabiting scenario, or being subservient to her opinion on children – which we already know not to be a healthy one. I see this as a mistake.
To be a successful blended family, adults need to take, and be allowed, adult roles.
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